My sisters boyfriend has to be one of the stupidest people I have ever met. I call him stupid because he is a know it all and knows nothing. My mom is a doctor and he trys to tell her about medical procedures and tell her she is wrong when she corrects him. He trys to tell my dad how to do accounting. He dropped out of school in the 10th grade and tells my sister she does not need college. he lives with his parents is 26 and works at mcdonalds. His mom says my sister is stupid for being with him, we agree. She tells us we don't see the real him she gets angry when i tell her not to come crying to me when she is left with 3 children and a boyfriend who blames her for all his problems. What can I do to make her take a good hard look at him?
2006-08-06 04:21:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO, I feel the exact same way when I look at my ex. I don't see the stupidest person on the face of the earth, but definitely the biggest A hole on the face of the earth. Like me, you come from a family of achievers. It appears that your sister wants to break the mold, this may be an attempt at rebellion. Granted, I'm certain the guy has qualities that your sister likes and it's those qualities that keeps her in the relationship. The more you all dislike him and bash him the more she'll want him. Try some reverse psychology..embrace him, praise him, etc (it'll be hard) but if you agree with him (even when he's wrong) and take the attitude that he's the greatest guy in the world. Maybe a light will come on for your sister and she'll think what are they doing, he's an idiot!
2006-08-06 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I saw the stupidest person in the world the day I found out that someone I know was dating, and planned to marry, a man that was convicted of molesting her daughter when she was ten years old. He got out of prison and she took him back. Her daughter, 17 at the time, was still living with her through the courtship. Now: her daughter is 18, the woman and pervert are married, and the daughter wants her 26 year old fiancé who she has been seeing for two years (do the math) to move in with them.
Stupid.
As far as getting your sister to see her man for who he really is, try instead to get her to take a long, hard look at herself. Teach her to value herself and love herself. Then, the manipulations and lies of her man will become apparent to her.
2006-08-06 11:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, I think it's impossible to know if you just met the stupidest person on the face on the Earth. It's probably just the stupidest person you've ever met.
As for your sister, you have to let her make her own desicions. If this guy is as stupid as you say he is, she'll eventually break up with him if she has a higher IQ than a rock.
2006-08-06 11:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by americanidolfanatic3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree......a real Looser but you are going about this the wrong way. If I were you and your family......I would not say one more negative thing about this guy. Leave it alone. Be as pleasant as you can, not sarcastic....nothing. Let your sister see for herself. She is so busy defending him in front of her family that she is not seeing the real picture. Don't bail her out of this mess.........leave her alone to get out of as she sees fit. No one is making you talk to him or interact with him so just butt out when he is around. Even if he is stupid, that is pretty mean to call someone that to his face. Since perhaps no one knows of his background, maybe he is doing the best he can. Stop making threats and trying to control who your chooses to be in her life. You all are just as bad......think about it!
2006-08-06 11:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She is going to have to figure it out for herself. She will hopefully get sick of being with someone who is so obviously a LOSER. At 26 he should have a good job, a house of his own, a nice car and a lot to offer a g/f or wife to be.
2006-08-06 11:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i got the same problem with my sister who been with a guy for 13 yrs and he only a liar, gold digger and evrything else and she has two kids by him but you not going to get them to see the bad because they don't believe it or in my sister case only with him because of the children but you could talk to her but she might see it later and will probably regret being with him and dump him or be like my sister and stay with him when he cause her so much misery. but hopefully she will see him for who he is and dump his stupid *** and tell him go suck on his dick!
2006-08-06 11:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by mattie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Sounds like your sister is going to have to learn the hard way. Encourage her to use birth control, and to get herself better educated. She will need this, and it might broaden her outlook. She will also need your love, and not very many "I told you so's" from you when the whole thing crashes.
2006-08-06 11:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her as a friend and a sister and maybe not as if your criticizing her decision. don't tell her how stupid he is or anything like that safe that for the end lol no but tell her how he has no goals no ambition for tomorrow and so on. good luck
2006-08-06 11:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying he "acts stupid" instead of he "is stupid." Sounds like he just wants to belong somewhere. Sounds like he needs to be loved.
2006-08-06 11:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, and it's quite funny, it was more 'most boring' for me rather than stupid though.
She will see him for what he is one day, but then again, maybe it is one of the things she loves about them!
2006-08-06 11:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋