i've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. he sometimes is a sweet guy but most of the time he's not. everything i do or acomplish he thinks is stupid, in other words he's never proud of me for anything. he is disrespectful around my parents, ( he makes crude, and sexual jokes around my family) he always wants to lay around with me everywhere like we are married. out in public he will do annoying things like mess up my hair or pull my shirt down so my bra will show. he also makes fun of the way i look sometimes and talks about how wen we get married he's gonna make all the rules. he won't stop saying my puppy is ugly. and he said that wen we grow up and get married if we have a girl he's going to kill it b/c he wants a boy. all of this stuff just gets on my nerves soooooo much!!!! he has anger problems too and he'll get mad over the tiniest things! he has no respect for me at all, or atleast that's wut he acts like.
2006-08-06 03:42:06 · 32 answers · asked by erica d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know you should break up with him. guys like that usually get worse over time. break up with him now...
he will play the I am sorry I won't do it anymore, but its not true, if he has anger issues he needs counseling
2006-08-06 03:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun listen he sounds like he still has ALOT of growing up to do and personally from your discripition he he has the posssibilities of bein abusive if he hasnt started already..A man who has no respect for you is not a man you want in your life he should always be proud of you accomplishments and make sure you know he is , as for the exposing your breast when ever your in public he is showing you what he thinks of you, you are just a possession to him something he wants to show off but he should only want to do it in a good way. Hun please leave him while your young and wise enough to see this is not a healthy or safe situation for you I have been thru the same situation and it turned very unsafe after I stayed for 3 yrs. I had to get a restaraining order and have him served which made him very unhappy and since then it has been 12 yrs and i still have to renew the restaraining order because he still harrasses me as much as possible so baby please dont go thru what I have leave him now before it turna physical...Good Luck
2006-08-06 03:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to grow up. If he is doing all these things, he is a big baby. Looking for attentiion. Don't even think about some one like this that has no respect for you or anyone else. They are making a fool out of them self and you. Tell him if things do not get better you don't want to see him anymore or for a while. Let him know there not funny. He needs to deal with his anger and not take it out on you. Things will get worse, so don"t tie the not ,cut the cord. Good luck Pem
2006-08-06 03:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered this question yourself in your last line "HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR ME" If he does not respect you time to move on. He is going to ruin your self esteem and knock you down and in time you will feel worthless and it is clear he will eventually turn abusive on you too. Trust me on this one I am speaking from first hand experience the abuse will start. You just need to tell yourself you are better than that. Get out of this relationship and the funny thing will be when you meet someone that treats you good and respects you, you will look back at this clown and laugh. Best of luck
2006-08-06 03:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who treats you this way. He obviously has no respect for you or your family. And the way he treats you and the family it's pretty much a done deal. You can do better be rid of him once and for all. You'll never be happy as long as you are with him. Go ,cut him loose and once he's gone don't let him back in!
2006-08-06 03:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the jerk. He is not good for your self esteem, and if you stay with him, you will become a battered wife in the future. Find someone else that will appreciate you more. You never know, he might realize what he did and want you back, and treat you like he should have in the first place. if you let him treat you like that, and you stay with him, he will not stop. Take it from a gorilla who knows
2006-08-06 03:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is immature, as boys will be. Now, come on, girl...you know he is. He probably thinks he is being cute, but will all the bad he has in him, I think it outweighs the good. You need to distance himself from him at least until he grows up. And you need to realize how detrimental his actions and words are to your self-esteem. This will become a pattern if you do not stem it now, dear one.
2006-08-06 03:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes like this now, just think how he'll be alot later. Do you want to put up with that? I'd say put him out to pasture in the Mad Cow section.
2006-08-06 03:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a single ounce of brain in your head, you will dump that useless chidlish peice of **** and move on
its onbvious this guy doesnt care for you and is treating you with NO respect
i am sure so many people have told you to lose him, so what are you still doing asking total strangers online whether yiu should dump him or not?
2006-08-06 03:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF girl. You need to get rid of him pronto. Read what you wrote! Do you have that bad of self esteem that you deserve to be treated like that? How old are you? Get a grip and stop being stupid. Can't even believe you asked that question and your parents are stupid as well for not telling him he is an idiot. Grow up.
2006-08-06 03:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋