I broke up with my bf last week,and before that had happened, there were a couple of guys expressing their admiration especially that they didn't know that i was in a relation ship.
What is happening now, I'm talking to this guy who seem really nice and gentle. Obviously he is into me big time, and he keeps talking to me almost all the time....I like talking to him too..but i'm afraid and worried that i might be need someone close in order to get over the bad feeling of breaking up, so... is it possible that i'm in a phase that my emotions are swinging!?
Should i move on and try my luck with this guy, or shall i give myself more time? I like this guy alot! He seems do right to me, but shall i wait?
2006-08-06 03:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Hendrix_lover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it possible that your "emotions" are swinging - yes - there is always that possibility. But here's the thing (unless I'm mistaken): you made a choise to do a "change" for yourself and your bf - so you have to "live" with it, cause it's already happened, huh?
If you are worried that you'll be "using" the "new" person - well, don't worry - the "use" won't hurt either one of you. Unless you include this "new" person in you "old" life - - - - !!!! Why would you do that????
Make a list of all the "pros" and "cons" with this "new" person - and if the "pros" are more than the "cons" - - well: there you have it! Otherwise - if the "cons" are more - then don't get attached. You seem like a smart person - don't let relationships get you down - just do what's right for you!!!!
2006-08-06 03:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance on the new guy.
If you weren't married and aren't having sex with every new guy right away, if you break up in the afternoon it's OK to go out with someone else that night.
2006-08-06 10:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel is better for you! if you think you will be happy with this boy, then go on!if you feel that your heart is not full of feelings & emotions towards hin then wait!listen to your heard, not to mind! there atre a lot of cases in our life when our heart can tell us more useful things than our mind!!!
2006-08-06 10:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this new guy take your time and put him to the test forst to see if its gonna be a good strong relationship before you get into another cycle. Good luck
2006-08-06 10:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe... he obviously doesn't know that you had somebody just before..... control yourself, go talk it over with your girls first - but don't let this guy go coz you might regret it later.
Just be nice and simple, and when only the girls are there, let your tears fall as much as they wish... tell them to prepare paper napkins, romantic videos, many-many, cause you are in crisis-time!
:)
2006-08-06 10:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur heart hun....if u really like this guy ull go 4 it, But u should still get over ur old bf and stop livin in the past
2006-08-06 10:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make you feel better you should have a gang bang with like 5 guy's or more i bet you will feel a whole hell of a lot better. :)
2006-08-06 10:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill. It's too soon to get into another relationship. Geeeshhh...
2006-08-06 10:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come over here, i'll make you ferget all about them boys and show u the difference between boys and men
2006-08-06 10:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and he likes you and you think that you can trust him not to hurt you i would say go for it, you never know what will happen unless you try and you never know, he could be your match!
2006-08-06 10:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋