I think I love this guy but I know I should hate his guts becuase he did someone to me concerning another girl
( he didn't sleep with her ) that really hurt me. Should I just let myself love him or convince myself to hate him? P.S. He's my current boyfriend
2006-08-06 03:27:38 · 15 answers · asked by tangelo813 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to "Convince" yourself to hate him then I really don't think you will. I think you love him but you are just hurt by his actions. Let yourself love him but if you feel you cannot get past what he has done then the relationship will not work. Without trust in a relationship there is nothing. Good luck
2006-08-06 03:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying, if you love someone, let them go. The right person is out there for you.
2006-08-06 10:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Angie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute...let me get this straight. You want to know if you should hate him because he DIDN'T sleep with another girl???? Did you want him to sleep with someone else? huh?
2006-08-06 10:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont think that you love someone you either do or you dont. but if he has cheated i wouldnt even bother with him anymore. not worth the hurt and he will do this again because he has shown you no respect by doing that in the first place
2006-08-06 10:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying, a leopard never changes it spots. If he does it once, its only a matter of time before he hurts you again. Get out while you can.
2006-08-06 10:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by boaqdhyaj hampanirekyui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does ur heart ask you to do? see sweetie, you know ur heart and its feelings best. You dont actually need someone else telling yopu what to do with your relationships especially when they dont have a clue abt what you are, or what ur boyfriend is.
2006-08-06 10:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard, well it depends on what he did and how bad you feel. If he did something bad that you obviously do Not like then dump him but if it wasn't bad and you think you love him then try going for it and see how it goes.
2006-08-06 10:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just listen tu ur heart.
2006-08-06 10:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by snehal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love some1 u dont need to ask other ppl
2006-08-06 10:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by alexeywin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem as ****** up as he is you two belong together.
2006-08-06 10:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by PetsRule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋