i am adopted, does September 3rd of 1978 in Alpena MI, mean anything to you.?

Question

if some one knows how i can finde my birth famely i would appreaciete it. i need some back ground info. and i would like to thank them for loveing me so much that they did the right thing.

i am looking for my mother. i hope she would like to meet me. she has 5 wonderful grandchildren. my adopted famely is very sapportive of this and i would like her to know that i adoptded my first child out to a loveing and carring famely.

Answer 1

I don’t have any information on your birth family, but I would caution you about your quest to find them. Most adoptee children I know start looking for them in order to find a sense of closure or a connection to their past. Most successful searches end in neither.
Giving a child away is painful, and not always voluntary. Having that child return is an awkward experience at best and there is no limit to how bad the worst can get.
Your past, I believe begins in your adoptive family. While you are genetically composed of another couple's material, you are, in all meaningful ways, that which your adoptive parents raised. Your past, present, and future should lie with them.

Answer 2

Up in the Search the web space at the top right of your screen, type in: birth records alpena michigan 9-3-78. Then push enter. The second listing says:Search birth and death records. Good luck!

Answer 3

Go back to the town where you were adopted. That's the first
thing you must do. Your adopted parents should know a little about it. What attorneys they used and the board of Health should be able to help you. They have all the records in their files.Good Luck and thanks for asking the question. Aloha from Hawaii

Answer 4

I know this from experience.....if you know the hospital where you were born,which should be on your adoption birth certificate,you can go to there records department and give them the imformation you have .if your birth mother left an open clause stating that should you come looking they are to give you any imformation they have as long as you are at a consenting age.all original imformation will be at the hospital on micofilm.where the court is concerned it all depends if the adoption was open or closed (sealed) document.your adoptive parents should know that part.if you would like to know my story you can email me at [e-mail] daughter and i met when she was 24.she found me.she has three kids,her three year old has a rare form of cancer.he has a web sight.ours is an unusual story .if you write me i will be glad to share it with you.it may not be as hard as you think to find them.best of luck..THE NOVA...

Answer 5

you were exactly one year old as my wedding day was 3rd september 1979 thank you. the third of september is a very good day in my family and south india for that matter it triggers happy marriages. though in the year 1978 i perhaps started dating to get married on 3rd sep 1979.

Answer 6

I don't have the information you are looking for, mainly because it will be different in your country. I am in Australia.

I just wanted to wish you well, and hope you have the strength to persist and find them. Also I hope you have the strength and courage to accept whatever comes of your efforts.

Good luck.

Answer 7

there are several websites available for locating birth mothers/fathers and adopted children. Check out this site

www.adopteeregistry.com

Answer 8

Well I think that u should not search for your family.It is they that have grounded u.You should love the family which has brought u up and taken so much pain.

Answer 9

sorry i did not help u but u r brave girl take care of u and i hope u find Ur family soon i begs to god take care love u lot byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Answer 10

I hope you can find your mother. My mom died when I was 6 years old and then I was adopted by my uncle and his wife. I love her now . and I am so glad I can call her mom.