My bf and his friends wants me to quit my job. They think tt i don haf enough time to spend time wit my bf. And quitting this job wud make things better. I am really confused and lost. This is my first job. I don feel like quitting yet. My bf said tt he don wan me to work until so tired. He also said tt he can work and give me money to use. But i don think it is a gd idea as i don really like to use ppl's money and i haf no rights to use his money either. He juz doesn't seems to understand me. Anyway, i am still a student. I am 15 yrs old. I hope some of you can help me.. Thanks! =)
2006-08-06 02:52:43 · 26 answers · asked by Soh l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's great that you want to work, and your boyfriend is a loser for wanting you to quit.
Stick with the job.
2006-08-06 02:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been smoking about 12 years, and I've tried twice. Once time I made it three weeks, another time 4 months. The three week break was in college (I'm 26 now btw), and I tried mostly just because I wanted to see howl ong i'd last. The 4 month period was because I REALY wanted to... because I broke up with my girlfriend, was depressed, and wanted to better myself. I started up again like an idiot, just because I started taking drags at parties and such. Never should have done that, because after 4 months my cravings were gone. All I can say is, quitting smoking is only really hard for about 1-3 weeks. When I got over that hump... it wasn;t that tough. The key is that you have to WANT to quit. If you, yourself don't WANT to quit, nobody can force you. It's a personal choice. If you don't have that desire and motivation personaly, nobody can convince you. You have to change his mind, not impose your will on him... based on the beliefs you were raised with.
2016-03-27 01:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are really 15 years old, i really don't think you shld be working. You shld be studying instead. If you don't really need the money to support ur family, or any financial needs, then i think its ok to quit your job. I guess your bf is right, its hard to juggle between your school and work. You don't have to take his money if you feel uncomfortable bout it. If you still think that you want to work, maybe you shld try to manage your time by working lesser days, and see how you can arrange it so that you bf wont feel neglected. Try to talk things out nicely, and sort out your problems with him. If you doesn't tell him, he won't know what is happening and you will feel that he dont' understand.
2006-08-06 14:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by smilepeepz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your bf and his friends are very immature, this is the best time for u to gain experience and exposure in the society, the best time to let your personality grow. If you really quit now, you have everything to lose and nothing to gain as you will lost touch with the society. And if in the event your relationship didn't last, I think you will have problem standing up on your own, either financially or mentally, and won't be able to fit in to the society. Quiting now is as good as destorying yourself.
2006-08-06 03:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he want you to quit the job just to spend more time with him, it make him seem to be a bit selfish and unreasonable. But as a student, and you are only 15, there is actually no so important to find a job, you should have concentrate more on your study.
2006-08-06 17:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right idea.. its a bad idea to stop working and rely on someone elz at this age. Tell him you can find some other ways of spending time together like maybe in the weekends or something. Good luck with your studies!! :)
2006-08-06 02:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I think your job may be interfering with your English class. If you quit for any reason, it should be that.
Don't quit for your man, you should have your own money, and you're way too young for a man to be keeping you down. It's just his means of controlling you.
2006-08-06 02:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by A nobody from Oklahoma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right for quitting will have you depending on others for cash he is saying he will support you now but when you want to go shopping all the ime he will start to resent you for it maybe he should be working when you are working that way you are both off around the same time
2006-08-06 03:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not quit working. This is his way of trying to control you. His friends should mind their own business. Maybe you can cut back on the hours you work so you can spend more time with him.
2006-08-06 03:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thnk its too early 4 u 2 start sacrificing for ur bf.if u wud start it 2day then he wud keep insisting u to do that all the time .its a gud time to judge him also.if he really loves u he wud except u with all ur wishes and follies.and its too early 4 u to decide that will u b married 2 him . i thnk its not worthy enough to let go sumthng u like 4 sum1 who doesnt care about ur liking.
2006-08-06 03:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't quit your job. By the looks of your spelling you might have a hard time finding another.
2006-08-06 02:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋