do you think you bf should have those abs and really awesome chest nd all and hav an over all great body or would you settle with someone who might not be having a great body @ all but knows to love and care about you very much...BODY vs PERSONALITY!! whats ur pick???
2006-08-06 02:51:08 · 21 answers · asked by Vaisakh S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should your guy be relly handsome or hot or sexy or cool or just average looking?
2006-08-06 02:55:44 · update #1
Having someone who loves you and cares about you are the most important in a good relationship. How ever you need to have someone who takes care of their health and appearance also. Physical attraction also has to be to a extend in a relationship. Not model perfect but, a well cared for body.
2006-08-06 03:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality!! there is no point in having a guy with a great body but he doesn't care about the girl.. having a great personality matters a lot cause the personality of the person never change and cannot be worked on but to get a great body that can be achieved by working out..
2006-08-06 09:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by cfrozty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it really doesnt matter if a guy is very handsome or if he has a six-pack abdomen. all of that physical stuff does not matter to me...because outside beauty fades with age, no matter how hard you try to preserve it.
i prefer a good personality over-all. because it is the personality of a person that you can be with throughout your life with him. it is these good values and training that he will carry throughout his life and it does not fade away as easily as beauty does.
my boyfriend has a really good and sweet personality. it is because he has been raised up by loving and value-laiden parents. if he is good-looking and if he has a nice body (which he has), then that's just an added incentive and it is not really the reason why i chose to have him.
2006-08-06 10:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta say, the body goes when you get older. Personality just gets better with age. I have chosen guys who are still pleasing to my eyes, but not perfect, based on their personality and intelligence. Nice looking boys can be very boring unless you like talking about working out all day, LOL
2006-08-06 09:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by tigra1021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to go to either extreme. If a girl wants someone with a great body only then tell her to go to Venice Beach in California. However, part of the whole picture of a guy (and girl) is that he cares about taking care of himself in mind, body and soul.
2006-08-06 09:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personality is the most important fact in my opinion,but a guy has to take care of his appearance.what i mean that he has to be health conscience.i would not be with a guy who was over weight ,eat lots of take aways and smoked.i like a guy to have a healthy body and mind
2006-08-06 10:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality a guy can have a great body and be a total jerk if their caring and nice and for me funny i'll give them a chance and if they have a good body on top of that then great but for me its not mandatory
2006-08-06 09:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by alai235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i wud settle wid da one who knows to love cuz those sexy abs r just gonna be there for a while,cant b for eternity.
its no good if he flirts wid other girls with those abs.
the person should just click wid me and luv me alot.
a true lover is a necessity but if he comes wid a gr8 body.its indeed a perk!!
2006-08-06 10:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is more important.....you can always build the awesome abs later, but you can't "build" a better personality.
2006-08-06 09:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality of course cause if you chose body you are shallow
2006-08-06 09:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋