I noticed that some(not all) guys get really vicious when you turn them down. No matter how nice you try to be, now you're mean shallow evil, stuck up b**ch, etc. any and every bad name under the sun they can call you. Why?
2006-08-06 01:56:34 · 28 answers · asked by Cyliasis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they are trying to save face by making it look like they weren't really interrested in you in the first place.
2006-08-06 02:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, try not to worry about it.
Looks like you've turned down the right people.
If someone doesn't do that, you should reconsider going out. What is the harm, you might meet a great guy who will be your friend. God knows, when you run out of the bad ones, you might wish you had said yes to some of the guys that aren't 'your type'.
2006-08-13 22:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are unrefined children. Here is a poem about them:
the boys i mean are not refined
by e e cummings
The boys i mean are not refined
They go with girls who buck and bite
They do not give a f u ck for luck
They hump them thirteen times a night
One hangs a hat upon her tit
One carves a cross on her behind
They do not give a sh i t for wit
The boys i mean are not refined
They come with girls who bite and buck
Who cannot read and cannot write
Who laugh like they would fall apart
And masturbate with dynamite
The boys i mean are not refined
They cannot chat of that and this
They do not give a f a rt for art
They kill like you would take a piss
They speak whatever's on their mind
They do whatever's in their pants
The boys i mean are not refined
They shake the mountains when they dance
2006-08-13 16:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Thom Thumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These "guys" as you say are showing their lack of maturity by calling someone all the names because of being turned down. Due to their ego on being great as they consider themselves, they do not know how to handle a situation such as being turned down so the easiest is to call names. They simple can't handle a refusal. In an older male, if they are turned down, reasoning sets in, and it becomes simply accepted.
2006-08-06 02:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tweek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone hate rejection. Some deal with it better than others. You are smart to just walk away and ignore them. They are the only ones enjoying this type of behavior so don't be embarrassed by it. Just be glad you did not decided to give them the time of day. Next time, just smile and say "Smart Decision!"
2006-08-12 05:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just seem to think that they are Gods Gift to women.
So if a women turns down Gods Gift that must seem like a insult to them.
2006-08-13 11:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys cant stand rejection,there mama always told them that the are beautiful sexy boy and any women would be a fool to turn them down,i think thats why there so surprized when they get knocked back they have been told there gods gift,there not of course.
2006-08-13 22:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Madonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain guys out there that just hate rejection because it happens way to often for them. Hey it is not your problem but just theirs. Some men hit on women that are way out of their league. Certain men have to learn to hit on women that are in their league.
2006-08-13 15:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called: Rejection! Man hate it when it happens to them!
Women hate it too. But that's life, and we have to vent the frustrations of it, then move on!
2006-08-13 15:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear it said a long time ago:
Men sleep with who they can.
Women sleep with who they want.
and a B**ch sleeps with everyone but you!
Unfortunately, some guys actually believe in that type of mentality.
2006-08-06 02:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by JReb_67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋