i split up with my boyfriend 3 months ago,but we have still been seeing/sleeping with eachother. Recently, i have noticed im kind of falling out of love with him, not feeling the way i used to.
Now, someone who i really have had the hots for, for about 3 years, has come into my life and basically offered it me on a plate. Now here is when things start to mess up my my head-my ex, has asked me to get back with him, and get a flat together and stuff like that, but i was with person B last night, we hung out most of the night in the car, but when he drove us back to his house and asked me to go upstairs, i came up with the excuse my friend needed me, and left. Does anyone have a clue whats going on in my head? I have been up all night thinking about it, and still aint come yo a conclusion, so please, help me.
2006-08-06 01:48:17 · 14 answers · asked by Claire R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be wrong to move in with your ex as you say you are falling out of love with him. In any case I should think the reasons you split up over in the first place still exist.
With regard to the new man in your life it sounds as though you have doubts about that relationship - was he moving too fast or did it fall short of what you imagined it would be like.
Why not go it alone for a short while. It may well be that you have not yet met the person who is right for you, but you will in due course. Good luck.
2006-08-06 03:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by not going to his place. Wait a while and sort it out in your head before you rush into something. Is it love or is it just infatuation ?
2006-08-06 08:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to ask this... you say that you don't love your ex but this other guy has come on the scene that does it for you....
Go with the new guy and dump the ex.
2006-08-06 10:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Saccharin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOLLOW YOUR HEART! You are a woman and have been blessed with the extra sense of intuition! Don't deny that gut feeling you have. If you deny your heart, your head will never be happy. Good luck!
2006-08-06 08:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give bloke b a chance, there must of been probs with man a or u would still b together
2006-08-06 08:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by bullatpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your ex split up for a reason, those reasons will still be there believe me. I know from experience. Move on and be happy
2006-08-06 08:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try being by yourself for a week or two - it will clear your head, and you'll see things more clearly. Good Luck!
2006-08-06 08:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by bcgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you're afraid the new one won't last or work out, so you want to keep the old one just in case.
Plus you are liking the attention of both of them.
2006-08-06 08:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes move on you need to because all you are doing is hurting yourself and your old boy friend and its not good for both of you so move forward and never look back as life is too short.
2006-08-06 08:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've not even read all of this but say move on - lifes too short and why waste your time on something thats not working or causing you pain
2006-08-06 09:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by asshat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋