she'd asked me what medicine could she take to get rid of that pregnancy.She and his bf used condom(according to her) but it didn't work bec. she's now pregnant.I don't know about this thing that's why im asking for your opinion and help as well.They are not ready yet bec they're both young and dependent with their parents.
2006-08-06 01:19:58 · 23 answers · asked by ress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Uhh I don't think there is a medicine; it's not like take 2 tylenol or some chicken soup and vitamin C and Afrin and it goes away.
Abortion, adoption or raise it are her options.
2006-08-06 01:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by O'Shea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abortion is a choice. women or girls in this case should have the choice don't listen to all those pro life people. raising a child by your self is the hardest thing your friend will ever have to do. I personally couldn't carry a child for 9 months then just give it up. I was a single mother but I was 23 at the time. it was a constant struggle. I never moved home with my parents, but they helped me as much as they could. I always worked full time. but you see this was my choice. it all depends on the person. abortion is not murder! it is a right. it is her body and if she feels this is not something she can handle then get her the right information so she can make an educated choice on her own. she is the one that has to live with it. not anyone else. maybe after this scare she will learn to use better forms of contraception. never trust a man to provide those kinds of things. you are the one who has to deal with the pregnancy not him.
2006-08-06 09:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by jandrews4378 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your genius friend to go to the doctor and get a pregnancy test. At two weeks, she's not sure if she hasn't been. RU486 is called the morning after pill. It is not available in the United States. If there were other non-harmful drugs known to cause spontaneous abortion 100% of the time, everyone would know it. If she takes some wacko's advice and does something stupid like eating a whole bottle of Tylenol, she could cause permanent injury to herself, and if she is in fact pregnant, increase the risk of birth defects in her fetus.
Best advice: Send her to a doctor.
2006-08-06 08:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by daspook19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd very much doubt that at 2 weeks she would know for definite she was pregnant. There is nothing she can do if she is tho but see her doctor asap.Tell her next time to go on pill or not to have sex and the morning after pill will not work now it has to be taken within 48 hours
2006-08-06 08:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenage pregnancy is on the rise in a terrible way, i had my first child when i was 16 so i am speaking from experience, i kept my child and then had 2 more trying to hold on to a marriage, but if ur friend is not ready then they are lots of loving people out they who can't have kids, i am not a belilever in abortion but adoption is what i would do
2006-08-06 08:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by justacutebamachick02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really needs to go see her doctor, if she tries to get rid of the pregnancy herself if could be life threatening to her. Tell her to make an appointment first thing in the morning, they will refer her to the hospital where they have choices about which is the best way to terminate the pregnancy.
2006-08-06 08:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by vanessa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion (which could be worth something - or not)...
They should NOT get rid of one of G-d's creations...no matter how young they may be...(unless they are under 13)...have them speak with their parents, their doctor and maybe adoption is a thought for the future...?
I hope everything turns out well...it's no fun to be in that type of situation!
2006-08-06 08:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Planned Parenthood and talk to people that can help them make a mature and educated decision. Regardless of public opinion PP does not "force" abortions....they helped a family friend put her baby up for adoption.
2006-08-06 09:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , wait until ur sure ur pregnant and if she is, go to her parents and tell them, dont never think of getting rid of a life, there are to many people out here in this world, that would love to be in her place,
2006-08-06 08:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Billie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advise you can give this girl is to tell her to come clean with her parents.....NOW!!! Something as serious as this is none of your business. Don't get yourself in this mix......it is her and the boyfriend's problem to solve. If you suggested something that was dangerous and something happened then you would have to live with that guilt for the rest of your life.
2006-08-06 08:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋