Thanks guys,I joined a dating site less than a week ago and I am getting to many guys emailing me.I am about to freak out,I am not used to this much attention.I don't want to settle for one I want to just go out on dates and I really don't know what to do.These are some cute guys too.Oh my ,I never thought this would happen.Please give me some serious advice.
2006-08-06 00:19:26 · 20 answers · asked by jackiedj8952 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be very cautious with any of the guys that ask to meet you. Sure, date as many of them as you like..... why not :)
Here's a few tips:
*You don't have to answer any question you dont want to.
*Don't give out your home phone number, address, last name to any man you haven't met a few times.
*Give a girlfriend as many details you have on the guy you are meeting. Tell her where and when you are meeting the guy and get her to call you an hour into the date to make sure everything is fine.
*Don't let any of the men you date know where you live. At least not until you have gone on a few dates and your sure he isn't a nut job. If they ask, then the city is more then enough information. *Lead them to believe that you have male room mates, even if you don't. I told them I lived with a male friend, who I didn't mention is a cat :)
*Be aware that alot of the guys are just looking for a lay. Any guy that comes on strong, doesn't ask you any questions about yourself, or thinks he is the ducks nuts.... avoid.
*Go on the dates expecting the worst, caution never hurt anyone.
2006-08-06 01:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, list everything you are looking for in a guy. Once you make that list, then you go back to the dating site of all the guys who are emailing you and determine which ones fit the bill. Weed out the ones who are not what you are looking for.
Do correspond with many of the guys who are writing you. Ask the appropriate questions and get to know them. The proeceed from there. Most of all, be flattered that you are being persued by many men.
If I was in your shoes I would.
2006-08-06 00:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you meet the guy in a very public place [ restaurant, book store cafe, etc..] and tell some of your friends or family exactly when and where you are going. Don't travel in a car with him until you really get to know him for awhile. Be careful if you drink alcohol, anyone can slip something in it-keep your eyes on your drinks at all times or hold in your hand. You never know, there are alot of freaks out there. I have met two very normal, nice guys in the past from online dating. Take a chance, but number one is to keep yourself safe.
2006-08-06 00:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good dating site. Just take it easy. Pick only one or two guys at a time.
I'm not sure if you did this but, hopefully you have a special separate email address for this dating site. This way, all the dating "spam" won't get mixed in with your regular email. You should always create a new email address for any occasion like this.
2006-08-06 00:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by DapperDan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you asked for it. Signing on to a dating site will bring every freak in your radius out of the wall.
Advice: get off the site and look for more traditional ways to meet guys. Ever thought of volunteer work that will bring you into contact with the guys I think you originally had in mind.
Plus the bonus of doing good for your community.
2006-08-06 00:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Half of these guys are either not the guy in the pic they sent you or its a pic from 10 years ago. Most (90%) of guys on those sites are wanting to get laid not date. They'll tell you what ever you want to hear to get you in their site. Use caution when meeting people from online sites. You really never know who you are talking to.
2006-08-06 00:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax it feels good to be popular. Some of these guys may be ok others possible weirdos just dont give out your address at home. Choice the one you feel suits you best one that enjoys what you like similar hobbies tho some will say they do. Chat with them for a while they will eventually show their true colours
2006-08-06 00:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should chose 1 of them whom u liked very much and leave rest of it but when u chose some 1 make sure that u stick 2 him some guys r very serious like me so just go on try ur luck from those guys only u might get ur life partner god knows so all the best
2006-08-06 00:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by teens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% are married, 5% will do you harm, and 4% are out to take advantage of you, so when you do the math that leaves 1% that might be honest and sincere. Be careful, because the world ain't what it used to be, and you can't trust hardly anyone! Good Luck!
2006-08-06 00:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy solution, Be yourself and date somebody in the real world. The hell with internet dating sites.
2006-08-06 00:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋