to be candid, she is ready to follow any man that is financially okay,for now there is no traces of love in her. as she has continued to habour men than before, i so much love her
2006-08-06 00:01:57 · 16 answers · asked by adebola s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I pity you, find someone who loves you, for who you are, not what you have!
2006-08-06 00:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on your financials whether for her, or for yourself, or for your future wife & kids. Not as in earning loads of money. But try to earn enough for your family & yourself. It's a man's responsibility to provide & give financial security & stability, besides emotional security.
If she's just a gold-digger, then no matter what you do (including printing money or manufacture diamonds), it will never be good enough for her, cos she wants more & more, as she keeps comparing with other men.
If she loves you for who you are but she's frustrated by money woes due to no money for bills or what. And you love her too, tell her that you love her alot & you wll work on it & need her understanding & support. Tell her that you'll strive to provide for her. If she still leaves you, at least you've given your best & not live to regret it. By then, you're financially stable for yourself & any new relationships that come by.
2006-08-06 07:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this hurts alot but certainly sir u should let u're wife leave u or i should say u should leave her.True love is not measured wid money.U love her alot but this does not concern her at all.May be she married u cuz of attraction.If she really had loved u ever since u got married she would've certainly holded u're hand to prove to be a true life-patner at this time of u're life.If she is leaving u cuz of u're financial status she is lookin for the money not man.This woman is certainly seekin 4 money and not 4 a man. if she really loves u she will realise her mistake and *** back in u're life.
2006-08-06 07:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by SHEllA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think ur lucky cuz she left u like that and i hope ur not having any kids from her 2 ,cuz kids will let u think to returns her back and maybe u will steal money just to retruns her back if u love her that much , but i'd like from u to move on cuz she don't deserve ur love she's aftering money not aftering u , so use ur brain and think about it ,she don't love u Man she loves money , let her go... ur happier without her trust me and try to find u a nice lady loves u for ur self and there is alottttttt of those sweet ladies ,, just try to look around u for seconds without thinking of her and u will make it , i wish u luck man :)
2006-08-06 07:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Arabian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...I'm sorry i got to tell u this, but if a woman goin to leave u jz bcos of your financial status....then i truly wonder if she ever loved u. If your situation is bad until u are badly in debt and got some one behind your tails, then u got to get things clear up!! If u are jz goin thru some bad moments of live and she is goin to leave the moment u met the prob......then u leave her! She does not deserve love from someone like u!! In love, no one is left behind bcos of such prob...they will solve it wit u...not leave u!!!
Move on!!!!
2006-08-06 07:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle_1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's simply a gold digger, and you are after her fro the thrill or what not. You want her maybe since you now see her as a challenge, and i guess you want to succeed. But she's money hungry, get your life together and leave her alone.
2006-08-06 07:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by ::.Mz.Allure.:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably lucky that she did leave before you married. The way it sounds you are better off without her. Find a women who will love you, for the person you are. Not what you have.
2006-08-06 07:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth do you still hanker after a gold digger mate....get a new life or a new job that makes more money lol.
2006-08-06 07:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly dont' think my pride could handle that.
Revenge thoughts however could lead you to become a rich man out of spite....
2006-08-06 07:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then she thinks more of money then she did you if that is all it took for her to leave then u did not have anything to begine with get out an find you a good one there out there i found one u can to
2006-08-06 07:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋