I have known him for a month.We have worked together all this time and got to spend a lot of time together.I was the only one on the job who talked english(this is the only languige he can speak). We had a really good times together but he never actually said that he likes me(I did not say either),but during our work time(our job was to look over kids)he payed attention to me, started conversations with me, entertained me.
Two weeks ago he left back to his countrey and there is no way I can see him soon. But the most confusing thing is that I do not know if I can even write to him.
We chatted trough MSN once. But now he was not online for a whilse. And he does not write to me.
I do not think that I love him. But I came to like him, and I do miss him. We never became anything more than a friends. Can I write him first? Even thou I like him I am wiliing to be just friends if he is not attracted to me. Shoul I tell him what I feel?
2006-08-05 23:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lunagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there really nobody who can give me advice????
2006-08-06 06:02:42 · update #1
Yes, you can definitely contact him. If you can get hold of him, just start out as friends. Check and see how he's doing and what he's up to. As you chat (and don't chat too much), you should get a feel for how he's feeling.
If you find that you're checking in on him more than vice versa, your interest may be higher than his. You'll also be able to tell some from his answers. If they're more involved, and more than hi/how are you/etc, that could be a good sign too.
Good luck and hope it all works out!
2006-08-13 03:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships...come in all different packages! He was just a nice friendly man, who got along with everyone he met. What's wrong with being nice to people without any strings attracted!
I'm not getting down on you or anyone else, but people seem to jump to conclusions about co-workers and friends of friends being more than what it is. Do yourself a favor, if he didn't make it known to you that he wanted more from the relationship, let it be!
(if he really wanted more, he would have found a way to get in contact with you) Just move on! That's my advice.
2006-08-13 22:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People come in to our lives & they leave. Most times when they go just move on. Long distance interest many times seem more interesting than they really are. To have a long term friendship come from a short term interaction comes with hard to over come obsticals.
2006-08-13 17:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to open up your feelings to him, so that there is no misunderstandings in between. May be he might be having the same feeling which you have but may be scared to reveal it out to you
2006-08-14 04:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Saruna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have wrote you back on the msn!!
but just tell him you like him, what the heck! there’s no need to be shy
2006-08-14 05:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by evangelionDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should write him and tell him how you feel.That way you are not face to face and he wont feel pressure.
2006-08-13 20:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-06 06:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by gun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... why not tell your feelings, you might be too late to say what you want to say to him... if he found another girl... so please......... don't take it too long!!!
2006-08-14 05:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by hesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋