i dont understand whats so hard about being honest and trustworthy.i've been seeing a few different women and yes they all know i'm seeing others.but it seems that a paitient,understanding,respectful, and somewhat compassionate man such as myself has such a hard time finding any woman with the same virtues.is that really a hard thing to find.i was always led to believe that thats the easiest things to find in a woman.please let me know what you think about this dillemma im in.
2006-08-05
19:45:38
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i might not have been clear since some people tend to think that since i say im dating several women,they assume im saying im sleeping with all of them but that is not the case here.ive just been seeing them and thats it.
2006-08-06
20:35:27 ·
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Well it would be but everyone is so busy putting on what they think you want that you don't see the real person...Too many times a woman will pretend to be someone she's not and the guy well he doesn't know any diffrent..You just have to have patience like you said and hope that you will find a woman who can just be herself ...and you will ...when you least expect it
A laundromat is a good place to find a woman...a woman who cares about herself will take care in how she washes her clothes...Someone who doesn't will just throw everything in one washer...lol...Hey it's true...........and if you go there and act like you don't have a clue as to what you are doing and ask a lady to help ...Thats one way right there
2006-08-05 19:55:16
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answered by Mrs. M 5
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seems like ur asking for more from ur multiple dates before ur willing to commit; it doesn't work that way. if i knew the guy i was seeing was dating others, i'd probably date other people to. or at least not be too serious until YOU took it to the next level. u can't expect patience, understanding, respect and *commitment* from someone when u are not willing to give it out urself. what u need to do is work on URSELF first...become a man who is trustworthy, honest, and able to commit. that way, when u date a woman, u will be able to filter out the ones who are not trustworthy, and u will keep the one who is. but u have to be it before u can find it in others. a relationship is not finding what u want and THEN becoming committed; it's being committed and finding someone who will commit to you. don't be afraid to take the next step with someone u think can be great; right now u are keeping ur options open and limiting urself from experiencing a true relationship with One woman, who u think is awesome enough to be the one. maybe u havne't met her yet; maybe it's not one of the girls ur dating...but don't date those girls anymore if they're not what u want. keep searching, and be the best so that u can expect the best. if u date other people, u cannot expect someone to come out and force u to stop that.. they are respecting ur wishes too probably since they know u are dating other girls.
2006-08-05 19:53:40
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answered by sasmallworld 6
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WHO LET THE DOGS OUT!!!! ;) ;) <----(WINK)
All these women know you're seeing others but you can't find a trust worthy girl/woman?
Hmmmm, sounds like you're getting your just deserts to me.
I knew somebody and this is a woman friend of mine, so opposite she and I are and that's why we have such a good friendship I think....
I have 7 kids settled married and divorced as she had her first child at 40. She'd always had somebody on the arm and always had it in her head that she'll treat others how she'd been treated-used men basically........
then after having her child she wanted to settle down, and she fell hook line and sinker in love with a guy, for him to do to her what she'd done to the guys she'd been with. Even she said it felt like a 'what goes round comes round' .......funny because now she really wants what she never thought she would and now having difficulty in getting what she could have had a hundred times over-
You earn respect, and maybe an aura of virtue goes with us in life
2006-08-05 20:00:58
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answered by WW 5
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Well, where are you looking? Different kinds of people inhabit different social arenas. And a certain type of person is attracted to you based on what you project about yourself and your way of being in the world. Perhaps there is something about you - perhaps you know what it is, perhaps you don't - that is signalling you as a good choice for women you don't particularly want. Perhaps think about the way you choose to present yourself and the places in which you are doing it.
Just trying to help!
2006-08-05 19:50:50
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-10-01 12:56:31
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answered by ? 4
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there's nothing wrong with being honest and trustworthy. it's the woman who has the problem if she has hang-ups about that. just continue looking for the woman worthy of your love and who knows, she might just be around the corner. there are a WHOLE LOT of women out there. don't worry, you'll find her soon.
2006-08-05 19:56:29
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answered by spanish_armada23 3
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Well, keep looking xD paitience,understanding,respect are hard to find amongst both genders. You'll bond to meet someone like that someday ^^
2006-08-05 19:51:03
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answered by Snowflake 2
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its not a hard thing to find , alot of women i know is like that ... i am at least ... is an example of a person who can never lie , i dont know how to lie .. even if i tried hard , i am just not so good at it , i am allways true and trustworth , thats what my husband know in me , so i am sure u will find her or SHE find you ..
so ... just give time a chance and she will come when u least expecting it .....
2006-08-05 19:49:59
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answered by delayla 2
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PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP. YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR YOU SOON ENOUGH. MAYBE THE WOMEN YOU ARE SEEING ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH FOR THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP YOU YEARN FOR. SOMETIMES, WOMEN CAN SEEM TO PUT UP A FRONT ABOUT WHO THEY REALLY ARE. JUST BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, AND NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. YOU DESERVE TO FIND WHAT YOU ARE SEARCHING FOR, JUST DON'T TRY TOO HARD. SHE WILL COME AROUND WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
2006-08-05 19:54:33
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answered by CAT 1
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STFU u big sniveler.
2006-08-05 19:49:47
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answered by nomad_of_gor 3
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