My neighbours are having another BBQ, it smells so good, wafting over my fence, why do they never ask me to come to their BBQs or Parties?
Don't you think it's rude?
2006-08-05 02:36:53 · 31 answers · asked by Emma 4 in Food & Drink ➔ Entertaining
Yer, we do speak, she borrowed a handbag of mine a few weeks ago!
2006-08-05 02:44:20 · update #1
well are you friendly with them? Have you ever done anything with them? Have you ever invited them over?
How about if you went outside and they were having this BBQ, would they shout over, "hey come on over"?
2006-08-05 02:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by TP 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you have your own BBQ. Invite a local band to play live in the back garden and cook all the food that smells the nicest.
Of course, you don't invite the neighbours.
There's a good chance they will invite you to their next one.
2006-08-05 09:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the other way, my neighbours always invite us in and we always invite them, but its now gettin to the stage where its just a case of we feel like we HAVE to, which is not nice, i much prefer to just say hi in the street. Don't get paranoid bout it,they probably don't mean to offend you, they might think you wont want to go. Why don't you have one some other time and invite them, then that will get the ball rollin for ya. To be honest i would much prefer to bein your shoes than my own lol ;-)
2006-08-05 10:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by titusluiggi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very rude. Our BBQ's are always have open invites!
I am just getting ready to put the Ribs in the smoker for tonite.
You are invited if you live around Minneapolis, and so is any one else! just bring something
2006-08-05 09:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by vern2618 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop your head over the fence and say....Cor that smells good!!! If they don't say come round after that then sod em.
I always think its best to keep neighbour as neighbours, be polite but sometimes getting too friendly doesn't always help.
2006-08-05 17:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's just a family thing? alot of people don't invite their neighbours over for their bbq. make your own bbq.
2006-08-05 16:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps they don't like you Have you ever had a party and not invited them if you are so desperate to go just gate crash taking a good bottle of wine with you, or go around pretending that you need a cup of sugar and hope they will invite you in or thirdly get a life and make new friends
2006-08-05 09:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are most rude! we have Lot's of bbq's and you can come over anytime, take no note of your mean neighbours
2006-08-05 09:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by karen464916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it London? Sounds like it. That's the place where no one knows your name! Your neighbour is too close for you to make eye contact or even interact... if is not London, well ... at least you know that the same happens there or something...
Have you been good for them?
Do you know them?
Many things... oh! You might be a nerd or not (they might be nerds and be scared of you...)
I don't know....
2006-08-05 12:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by wellington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask them over when you have a BBQ with your friends/family may be they would invite you to theirs.
2006-08-05 09:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋