i had protected sex with a guy im a guy also and im scared?

Question

im 16 i dont know what to do the condom didnt break or anything is there chance of me having hiv im so scared

Answer 1

Since you claim to have protected sex and since the condom didnt break,ur safe.Not to worry.
Remember the ABC of HIV prevention,
A=Abstinance from sex until marriage.
B=Being faithful to one uninfected partner.
C=Regular and consistant use of Condoms.

Answer 2

If you used a condom and it did not break then you were as protected as you could be during sex. Of course there is a possibility of having contracted an STD, but odds are that you did not. If you know the status of the guy you had sex with that might give you some peace of mind. Also, go get tested. Keep in mind that HIV will not necessarily show up in a test for 6 months, but it is good to get tested at 3 months too. Like I said though, if you used a condom then you took the best precautions you can take when you are going to have sex.

Answer 3

16 is young for sex. Having said that, did you talk with your partner about his health status? If you have not, do it. If he has health issues you should be aware of, he should let you know. You could always talk to a doctor and have a few tests run if it will put your mind at ease. You can also order HIV test kits over the internet. You send it in after following the instructions and you can stay anonymous. He would have to be infected and passed on to you through bodily fluids. Also you could try planned parenthood, it is not just for women. It is for both sexes, and all lifestyles. A great place for information. It is awesome that you did practice safe sex. Make sure you always do to stay as healthy as possible. Stay well. :)

Answer 4

First of all does he have hiv? Second, if you are that concerned don't have sex until you are in a serious committed relationship. Third, go talk to a doctor about it. Fourth, I believe you just aren't ready to have sex. The one good thing, you did have protected sex. That at least shows that you are certainly not stupid. Go talk to an adult that you trust. I just don't think you are ready for this. Good Luck:) I HAD to add to this after seeing what everyone else was writting. PLEASE go talk to a health professional!! These people are giving you wrong information. Get back online and check out health websites if that is all you are comfortable with but please...get some REAL information instead of these biased idiots on here!!

Answer 5

It isn't likely that you've contracted HIV if the condom was sound. If you are worried then think before you act next time. If you don't know a person well enough to feel secure and certain that they are clean, they aren't the right person to be fooling around with and if every time you have sex you're afraid something might be wrong, then you're too young to be having sex at all.

Answer 6

Don't let everyone scare you. If you used a condom and it was intact the whole time you have a very slim chance of getting infected if he does have HIV to begin with which I doubt. You should get in the habit of talking to your partners about your status before you sleep together. The only things that condoms don't prevent completely against are herpes and HPV. Get yourself educated so you don't worry next time.

Answer 7

I am 20 and in a long term relationship with a guy myself and the first thing, I am sorry to say, is yes there is a slight risk of being infected with the virus. I am glad that you had the forethought to use protection and that does cut the risk significantly. Second, regardless if you are going to continue your sexual relationship with this guy or someone else, you need to be tested regularly. There are clinics you can look up in the phone book that do free testing. Third, always make sure BEFORE you enter into a sexual relationship whether it be straight or gay that neither of you have any std's. Fourth, whether you are gay or this was just something experimental there is nothing wrong with it and there is nothing wrong with finding someone whom you love and who loves you, no matter what sexual orientation you identify as, you are still a person.

Answer 8

Go get tested. Go to the doctor. As you know, there is no cure for HIV but their is treatment and the sooner you know the better. With any disease it can get worse without proper treatment. But if you used a condomn and you used it right then your chances of having HIV are fairly small. But it doesnt hurt to be sure. Better to be safe than sorry! Good luck!

~Rickeisha

Answer 9

There is always a possibility of something being transferred even with protected sex.
If you know this person well enough to ask, ASK "Is there a chance I may have received a virus from you"? If you do not know them that well you should take monthly tests (even if they said no) and not expose anybody else to the possibility of further exposure.
Talk to your Parents or a Supporting Group in your area.
I feel for you and your fear.

Answer 10

hmmm.....

no offense meant but you really got shafted.

jeesh. Ignorance will get you killed alright.

The fact that you had anal sex wherein your partner was the violator and you the violatee is already repulsive and abominable.

Anyway, as long as the condom didn't break and the guys semen didn't spill into your lacerated anal canal. You're basically safe. But only a HIV diagnostic test can verify that for sure.

Sorry for sounding homophobic.

Good luck and peace.

Answer 11

I don't believe that you have HIV if the condom did not break but if you are sincerely scared than my advice to you is to get tested you must not be ashamed of being gay and importantly your health should always be your first priority you were man enough to lay you be man enough to deal with what comes behind it.