2006-07-28 10:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If this is true, you need professional help, not advice from a bunch of amateurs. It is a good sign that you at least feel guilty about it. But seriously, get help so it doesn't recur.
2006-07-28 10:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Wascal Wabbit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I have a friend who was sexually abused as a child, and when she was 18 she got a job at a day care center, and she used to abuse the babies there. She carried so much pain from what happened to her, and then she lived with the guilt of what she did to other people on top of it.
I will tell you what I told her. It is common for people who have been abused to be abusive towards others. It is not okay for you hurt others, but I think you know this. In my friend's situation, I told her to stay away from young children, and I would say the same to you. Stay away from the kind of people you have abused in the past.
In the meantime, this is the kind of problem that can only be resolved with the help of someone in the mental health profession. Please, please find a good counselor. I know you feel horrible for what you have done, and the best way for you to make up for it is to get some help for yourself so that you don't hurt anyone again.
If you don't mind, I will pray for you today. I can tell you are carrying a heavy burden in your heart. Please take care of yourself. No matter what you have done, you are worth helping.
2006-07-28 16:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to get over being the victim. This may take some time and some money. Some cities have free services. Especially if you reported the offense the public defender is leagally bound to get you help.
As far as becoming an abuser well you need to contact.
2006-07-28 10:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, remember all the pain and problems it caused you so you don't do it to another. Second, seek out help...school counselor, doctor, parent, ect. You need to deal with the issues before it becomes too serious or you hurt someone really bad, no matter what...stop the cycle of abuse.
2006-07-28 12:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a joke, it is not funny.
You need to get professional help. Go talk to a counselor or a priest or something. And do it quickly.
T.
2006-07-28 10:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Theophania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so not funny your sick for even thinking about making up a question like this I hope you get whats coming to for being such a fu**ing ignorant selfish silly little piece of ****
2006-07-30 13:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wont someone else to hurt the way you did when you was abused .. that is a excuse you use to abuse children...you need help not excuses.......what might help you is confront your abuser .. not make more victims.
2006-07-28 17:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are being honest.. you need to get some help with this problem. Go see phycologist
2006-07-28 12:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you should post this in the mental health column ..
2006-07-28 13:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋