he has aids , i have herpes... I know the conflicts on the situation.. i know what i would be getting into and what could happen... im just wondering about sex if we are protected... even when herpes... is it wise to be in the relationship with both of us have something... please help.
2006-07-26 11:08:15 · 12 answers · asked by speciesous 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
there is a big sifference in herpes and aids .. you need to think about it before sex.Because there is no cure for herpes, an infected person will have to deal with outbreaks and the possibility of transmitting the virus to a loved one for the rest of their life. Fortunately, herpes does not cause any long-term health complications. However, if you have an outbreak of herpes sores, your risk for HIV infection is increased, as it is easier for the virus to enter your body through the lesions. People with a compromised immune system may experience more frequent and severe outbreaks.
: The main complications associated with HIV are the increased risk of serious illness, developing AIDS, and dying of an AIDS-related complication.... BIG DIFFERENCE.....
2006-07-26 15:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u can. Don't worry about what other people r saying if u love some1 that shouldn't matter even though it's a scary thing 2 be w/some1 with AIDS. U would have 2 be real caustious about having sex. I would use the female condoms they r way more protecting than the average male condom. Ur partner I'm sure is involved w/an AIDS organization u guys can go there and talk 2 the case worker there and get educated on safe sex between the 2 and they will also provide the condoms 4 u guys. I hope this will help u guys.
2006-07-26 18:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by shortyb5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am absolutely terrified and I feel so alone. I just found out last week that I tested positive for hsv1 and 2. I have been with the same man for the past 10 years and within the last year found out that he has cheated on me with numerous women. I am so scared that I can give it to my children by kissing them and them eating with me...I feel like my whole life has changed. And even though the nurses, my doctor, and websites say that a lot of people have it I still feel like I am by myself. My self esteem has dropped and I feel like I have been used up. But now, My life is very happy.
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2016-05-14 23:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously reflect on the relationship and what it means to the two of you. Basically with wisdom; both of you already know that your sexual relationship is limited on many degrees. Perhaps you both should seek the counsel of a medical profession as to what is acceptable and what isn't. However; greatly consider your relationship as friends. Sex isn't everything or the most important aspect of a relationship. If you two have a spiritual connection, with friendship, cornerstoned on trust, love, respect, and adoration; continue on your journey together. Otherwise depart and spare each other tremendous pain.
2006-07-27 08:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really really love someone you want to and have to do what is best for them. It would be really bad for him to catch Herpes - he would not be able to fight it off and would have terrible outbreaks all the time. And just as devastating for you both if you should get Aids. Seems to me the best way to express that you care for each other is to stay OUT of the bedroom.
2006-07-26 11:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you but if it was for me, I wouldn't do it. Herpes is nothing like AIDS. Thats something you can die from, so don't do it. Or maintain a relationship without sex.
2006-07-26 11:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Karma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self control. It is not wise. Let's pretend for a sec. You have sex. You give him herpes. Because he has aids he is more suseptable to infections. He catches an infection, he gets sicker than he is or maybe dies. For what? Because you want to get your rocks off? Your selfish. Stay alive. Don't think with your dick. Think with your brain.
2006-07-26 11:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and that i believe you thoroughly. I value love excess of I do lust. Do matters collectively as associates, then work on a romantic relationship. Do you benefit from the identical meals, movements, live shows, track and theater? It takes time and effort to find out if you are suitable or not. In my view, I just like the wonderment and anticipation of a possible romantic relationship.
2016-08-09 05:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends where they are. IF the condom is not protecting an area where there is a current out break, then yes you can get what he has. IF you don't have an outbreak then don't worry about it.
2006-07-26 11:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you, but you should consider that you have herpes it"s not life threatening AIDS is and you could worsen his situation if he gets herpes. sex is not worth getting sick can you be with him without sex.
2006-07-26 11:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋