When she was peforming oral (I did not *** or anything in her mouth) I didn't wear a condom. When I performed anal sex on her, I did.
I didn't get a chance to wash up until about half an hour afterward.
She has had a number of partners but said she was careful and STD free.
What do you think I should do?
2006-07-26 07:23:58 · 57 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Dude! you ROCK! your first time was up the butt???? That's awesome!
Don't worry about STD's they don't really exist. It's just something grownups tell younger folk to keep them abstinent.
2006-07-26 07:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your partner has had a number of partners you should get checked. She doesn't know if they are STD free. There are really no symptoms of STD. No one knows if they are infected until they get the blood work. You should go get a test and wear condoms through the whole procedure next time. That way you may feel a bit more comfortable. But since your partner has had sex with many other people you should get tested about once a month if there has been atleast 5 occurances of sexual activity.
Hope this helps!!!
2006-07-26 10:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your own admission you have had unprotected sex with someone who has had sex with a lot of partners. If she had unprotected sex with you, what is the guarantee that she did not do the same with some or all of the others? Can you vouch for the status of all those partners?
You may get a test done, but if you are going to be taking the same risks again then what is the point? Or you want to know exactly when you got your first STD - if that is the case the tests could be most useful!
2006-07-26 07:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by natsubee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably didn't contract any STDs this time. Even though you didn't wear a condom when she gave you oral sex, you most likely didn't get anything from her unless she had open sores in her mouth and had tested positive for an STD. I do want to say good for you for wearing a condom during anal sex. If you're really concerned though still, you should go get tested for STDs, just to ease your mind.
2006-07-30 11:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you do have sex it puts you at risk of having a disease. Especially if she had partners before you! It was your first time and u should be smiling and happy! Feeling lots of relief! lol But instead u r full of worry! Im sorry!!! I would say- give it a few weeks or so and if you start seeing any weird signs like itching-rash- or ickey discharge from your ummmm FRIEND then RUN to the nearest doctor! If you r totally so worried u cant see straight go to a doctor now. Theres lots of free clinics that do this for no charge! I hope u got thru this HEALTHY so u can remember it always with a smile!!!! CONDOMS NEXT TIME! Ill be u wont forget though!
2006-07-26 07:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, the purpose of condom is to protect you from STDs. STD is not transmitted by oral sex, but vaginal & anal sex does. So, good for you, your first time and already being responsible. Still, better safe than sorry, especially if she's had mulitple partners.
2006-07-26 07:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by rn_md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on losing the big V. And with some back door action to boot, awesome. As far as the STD's, it's rare to contract anything from oral play and you used protection with the other stuff, so just relax. You're probably fine. Just get tested if you start getting symptoms like burning when you pee and the like.
2006-07-26 07:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Widgettao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly couldn't hurt to get yourself tested, but I wouldn't stress about it. With the exception of herpes (for which testing is extremely difficult and expensive) and warts, there are no diseases a man can get by receiving oral sex. Condoms are a very good way to prevent STD's, but they're not perfect, so get tested if it'll ease your mind.
2006-07-26 07:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by giovanni9686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you didn't find this girl out on a street corner payed for her and didn't use a condom you should be fine plus it is too early to test right after wait a week or 2.
2006-07-26 07:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you should thought about this b4 you had sex.
2. some std's don't show up til 6 months or so later (some even later than that)
3. anal? on your first experience? i don't think i could pull myself to try anal NOW and i lost my virginity 5 yrs ago.
4. i don't know why im numbering my comments
5. yeah, get tested now, and later
6. please learn to use protection
7. ok, im done
2006-07-26 07:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get tested after EVERY sexual encounter you have. It's better to be safe than sorry. My wife and I go to get tested twice a week. It's like 100/test but the doctor told us we should be tested after every sexual encounter. It gets expensive but I don't want my wife or I to get STDs from each other. You never know.
2006-07-26 10:19:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋