I met him 3 months ago and within the first week he told me he was HIV+. I admit i was scared as all hell from the outset. I,as far as i am aware, am HIV-. I love him, and i know love conquers all, but im still scared. Has anyone/is anyine else in the kind of relationship. is it working for you?
2006-07-25 13:40:12 · 13 answers · asked by Paddy 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
I have never been in a relationship with someone who has HIV but my uncle was. In fact, my uncle was the one who had HIV and his partner did not. They absolutely loved each other, and his partner stuck through with him until the end. My uncle died eventually from complications with AIDS back in 1997, and his boyfriend was crushed, but he never did get the virus from him. It is possible to be in a great relationship with someone who has the virus, you just have to be very careful and take extra precautions. Good luck to you! Best wishes!
2006-07-25 21:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all people can have relationships without having sex it's called "abstinence" and second of all are you sure it's love because you two have only been together for three months but if you love him as much as you say you do then talk to him about your feelings so you two are on the same page, that's very important in a relationship and I'm glad that he was man enough to tell you and last try praying about it because miracles can happen.
2006-07-25 15:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people manage successful relationships in these circumstances, get educated on this topic and don't let others ignorance scare you off! There are treatments in use to slow the process of this disease go together to a doctors or specialist clinic for all the best advice. I wish you both all the future luck and happiness.
2006-07-25 13:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by camshy0078 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would really really really think hard about this. I mean 3 months? it could be love dont get me wrong but u need to list the positives and negitives...and sorry to say it but there will be more negitives. Your life is at a huge risk for someone you may really care about but 3 months isent enough time to know if you want to be with someone.
Best of luck
2006-07-25 15:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you experience like this individual is somebody you may prefer to alter into severe with then definite. merely because of the fact a individual has HIV does no longer cause them to disgusting. There are steps you may take to keep away from the unfold of HIV to your self in case you 2 make certain to alter into sexually lively or stay jointly. human beings residing with HIV have the proper to be enjoyed merely like a number of different individual. i in my view think of this is out good lack of expertise that makes human beings petrified of somebody with HIV it quite is gloomy. in case you experience on your heart that there is a few thing there with this individual provide it a try (you do no longer could have intercourse with him, you may anticipate that). think of of lots braveness he had to construct to enable you be attentive to that he has HIV. If no longer then that's ok too yet do exactly no longer shove him away because of the fact he has HIV like maximum of those individuals could do.
2016-11-03 00:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by bulman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU can love any body and even hiv patient.There are many HIV marriages and couples.I am really sorry for you.But take care of your health.Love neednot be linked to sex.Donot have sex or if it is essential only have protected sex or use condoms.
2006-07-25 18:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been 3 months? Good Grief.
Just put some distance on the situation and move on with your life.
Sorry, but I feel thats asking alot from a person.
I wouldnt do it.
2006-07-25 13:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hon it's normal to be scared about these type of things. I think what you need to do is sit down with him & tell him how you feel. Good luck!
2006-07-25 13:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should follow your heart but be damn sure he feels the same way and is not going to leave you after you do have sex, if you haven't already, but if it happens please let the next partner know you are HIV+
2006-07-25 13:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please believe if was me I would be scared to. but your right love dose conquers all. at least he was honest about it. I you love him like you said you no matter what you go threw do it to gather
2006-07-25 13:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by viola b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋