I have started wearing my girlfriend's clothes. am i turning gay.?

Answer 1

I don't know about gay, but you are definitely getting weirder. Doesn't she get angry or does she not know? It's weird.

Answer 2

all men will cross dress at some time in their lives.This is perfectly normal. It's usually because you wouldn't ordinarilly wear things like skirts and skimpy tops, and so curiousity is created. Normally this curiousity is found at the age of five or six when boys are learning that girls are different to them and they want to know why. However some men find this curiousity exists through puberty also, when they are usually experiencing their first sexual encounters with girls.
Many men find also the feel of silk and the smoothness of womens clothes, particularly underwear, another attractant. It is a contrast with their own clothes and how they feel.
As for the gay aspect.this is yourown personal thought. Sit down some time, alone and have a think about how you feel, and then act. Otherwise there is nothing to be ashamed about.

Answer 3

No. I don't think it's like getting a sun tan "am I turning gay yet" "oh yes, I can see you've caught a bit of gayness today, you'd better put some Nivea aftergay on it, to stop you heterosexualising out" Though I would suggest that if you are a male with a girlfriend, you're very confused and probably other things which I couldn't possibly mention ;-)

Answer 4

I have no idea about a concept of "turning" gay, either you are or you are not. I think you are confused re your sexual terminology.
A man wearing women's clothing is known as a transvestite, this has nothing to do with being gay, most transvestites are straight. It is all to do with being in touch with your feminine side. If you are not aware of this, you will need to read up on the subject, this may then ensure you do not show your ignorance at asking similar questions.

Answer 5

We have just done a survey here at work and we found that most
of the drilling crew have at some time worn or still wear there girl friends clothes,
Not all of them wear make up though.
Close second where the scaffolders who seemingly cant get
enough,constantly swapping with there good Lady's.
joint third was the riggers and abseilers
One third refused to comment?,
And the office staff denied all knowledge.
Personally i think they are the main culprits, just to shy or embarrassed to admit it..
But they all said as long as no one is getting hurt whats the problem.
We will try and catch the supply vessel when she comes back
and see if the Norwegians come clean or abstain.
{There queer folk at the best of times}
Watch this space.????

Answer 6

There is a very common misconception that cross dressing (which is what you're doing) makes a man gay. Nothing of the sort. There are a lot of heterosexual men that cross dress every single day.

Every man has a femenine side to him, just as every woman has a masculine side to her. As far as women go, in today's society, not only does she get to display it, but in the work place she is required to display it. Yet, a man is discouraged from a very early age to display his femenine side, but to some of them, it is strong enough that they must channel it somehow and to many of them it is crossdressing.

Also, men dream of having "lesbian" relationships with their women. And I'm sure that it isn't any different than those who have foot fetishes, or those who are into S&M, etc.

It is unfortunate that society has been conditioned to shun anything and everything that is out of the norm, and as a result, women are breaking up with men who are crossdressers, instead of exploring that side of their men and actually make their life more exciting.

Maybe you might want to join a crossdressing support group, not one that would discourage your crossdressing, but one who would support it. One of the first things they'll tell you is that you're not gay. You just like to wear women's clothing.

The only way to tell if you're gay is to think of any male that you know that you would want to have sex with. If the answer is no, it is obvious, your'e not gay.

Answer 7

There could be many reasons for this, and most of them are borne out of your past, and how you see things and are affected in life. For the real answers to this, you should see a psychoanalyst.
Although I think you would know if you were turning gay. That is if you know what being gay means. Of course, if you enjoy sex with both genders then you would be classed as Bi-Sexual.

Answer 8

No of course your not turning gay, my brother is a very convincing cross dresser often goes out dressed and is very feminine and pretty but in no way is he gay he loves women and has had a string of girlfriends

Answer 9

No.

Transvestites are not gay. According to studies, transvestites actually fall into the "very heterosexual" range of sexuality--they are attracted to women to the point where they wish to feels as close as possible to them.

However, if you are hiding this from your girlfriend (especially if you are wearing her clothes without her knowledge or permission) you are asking for trouble.

Answer 10

Just means you are a crossdresser, you're only gay if you find men attractive. By saying you have a girlfriend i'll assume that isn't the case.

Answer 11

don't listen to the **** but i think everyone has gay tendencys if only they wonder of wat if . Just because u enjoy wearing ur girlfriends clothes doesn't mean that u r gay. Do u have gay thoughts?do u see urself sleepin with another fella these are questions u need to ask urself but if u r tell ur girlfriend