please pray for me?

Question

am still a virgin and am tryin my best to stay a virgin till i get married and god has helped me out a little, they r so many times i could have lost my v from many good lookin grls but it never happend , it was either , icouldnt get a ride to the grl's house, lost my condom, or somethin comes up, for all i kno god wants me to loose my V after i get married and thats not a problam for me.
The reason y i want u to pray fo me is becoz 2 months ago i almost had sex wit this grl that i knew but we just kissed only french kiss of coz and am scared dat i mit hav cought sumtin from kissin her(I Heard SHE MASED AROUND A LITTEl) it could be HIV

Answer 1

I will pray for you. I don't think you have HIV, but it you are worried it is good to get the test to get your peace of mind back. I know how tough it is especially now in the times we live to keep your virginity. Hang in there, save yourself for your wife, you will really be glad you did. I don't know if you have been dating any Christian girls, but maybe you should look at that, cuz they would more than likely not pressure you into having sex before you are married. I am proud of you for keeping your virginity, and it is quite refreshing to hear that someone cares enough to do that these days. Hang in there and I will pray for you my friend.

Answer 2

Pretty much what the other people said , if you are worried about HIV (which i really don't think you have ) or the kissing kind of herpes (which 70% of the population and there dog has mind you )then tell your mom about the kiss and your concerns and ask her if you could go get some blood work tests done to put your mind at ease , This also teaches you to care for yourself properly and when you have health concerns,later on in life as an adult to get it taken care of by a professional .
PS i will say a little prayer

Answer 3

Its very rare and highly unlikely to catch hiv from the mouth, i.e. kissing. First of all this would have to mean that she had oral sex and caught it. She would need to have sores, open sores or cuts inside of her mouth and if bodily fluids which were infected entered then could have caught it. HIV is one of those things that makes us worry, and the worry opens our minds up to experience hypochondria (the fear of having a sickness or disease). I had hypochondria and stds were one of the things that my mind told me that I had. Even though there was NO way that I could have caught it. I heard things on MTV and got scared. Get tested, there are free testing services out there. I had to work up the courage and attack that hypochondria in my mind and you know what I didn't have anything wrong with me. (And how rapidly did those fears go away completely). Hpv is not in the mouth, it is from sex and attacks the woman's cervix causing her cancer and genital warts. Let me guess you are going to websites looking for the symptoms of all the STDS to see if thats what you have? This my friend is a little thing called guilt. I doubt you have anything. However syphilis could be a possibility. But you will see the symptoms of syphilis. It has 3 stages and the last can cause blindless and death if untreated. Penicillin was invented and went straight to work on this epidemic in the olden days. Remember you can get rid of all of the stds except the "H" ones.. HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes. Keep trusting in our Lord, he is the only way out of these fears.

Answer 4

You are a Good Young Man,

Honey, if you read all these questions on this website, you'll see that sex before marriage is NOT even worth the aggravation.
Most people have Herpes, HPV, HIV, Chlamydia--ughhh! Its so not worth it. 70% of Americans have an STD.

But deary, you remind me of myself. My aunt died of AIDS, and I was so worried about catching it--still am. I used to get worried about swimming pools, toilet seats, everything. One time, this guy I used to work with was HIV positive--and we were talking--and can you believe that as he was talking, he accidentally spit a huge chunk of spit in my eye? I just prayed and said to myself, "only the God Lord's will can help me". I've been tested since, and I'm negative. I mean, they say you cant catch it from saliva--but when a HIV positive person spits in your eye--youre gonna get scared, I dont care Who you are... But, as for your cousins, just be careful--don't share towels or toothbrushes--but you can hug and kiss them on the cheeks and stuff. GET TESTED so you will feel better.

Just wait until God gives you a beautiful, clean wife---and don't marry no skeezer hoochie momma whose been around the block 50 times, no matter how fine she is--get a Nice girl who loves God, and make sure you BOTH get tested for STD's and HIV before marriage. Thats what I'm gonna do--I dont care how much people make fun of me. Peace

Answer 5

You're a good guy.
Dont be too much worry abt it. People with HIV can still survive their life with antiviral drugs. I admit your effort is wonderful and I know it's hard.
Knowing a person you love before making love to her is very important. In the process you will know whether you can accept her plus and minus, including the diseases she has. It's also vice versa.
My boyfriend and I have been togehter for 2.5 years without any sexual intercouse and we are trying hard to know more and more. When he knew that I have a chronic hepatitis and is potential to infect him too, he said: I don't care.
You see that? Knowing each other is the most important for any of us.

Answer 6

dude ur not gonna get hiv from kissing someone. it is highly unlikely. unless her mouth was bleeding. hiv (aids) is given to someone else by having contact w/ their blood...or by having sex (usually unprotected). u are too young to think about sex...u can't even spell and you have no idea how STDs are transmitted. educate yourself...look it up on the internet. if you caught anything it might be mono (kissing disease like strep throat). oh and HPV is a virus that causes women to get cancer....you can't "catch" it.

Answer 7

You cannot catch HIV or anything else (besides a cold) from french kissing. You cannot catch HIV from your cousins, unless you have sex with them or somehow come in contact with their blood in a fair quantity.

Please get some basic sexual education. You need it.

Answer 8

Relax, baby. I got some information from the internet:

"The vast preponderance of all new HIV infections are transmitted through unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse, and this is where we need to focus our prevention efforts. What we need to be telling our HIV-positive patients is: Kiss anyone you want, anywhere you want. But never, ever have unprotected intercourse."
http://www.thebody.com/hivnews/newsline/oct97/editor.html

Answer 9

you are done for pal , some disease is gonna get cha . If won't be long before you fall into the clutches of an infested skanked out babe that you can NOT resist.

BOSCO

Answer 10

My feeling is that the stress you are putting your self is worse than sex itself. My views on the matter are quite different but I have to respect your views. So the answer is RELAX