This happened to me 6 years ago.
2006-07-12 05:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by daisey_duke52 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Respiratory Diseases
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2006-07-12 05:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk of all the good things she has taught me and let her know just how much she effected the person I am so she would know that after she is gone a part of her will always live on thru me and what I teach my kids that I have learned from her! Tell just how thoughtful all the little things were she has done that I ever forgot to mention...we should do that everyday but we don't. I do think that love can be unspoken and just known, but it is nice to express it to the people we care about!
2006-07-12 05:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jo CB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure I hugged her everyday more than once. I would tell her everyday: I love you moma. If she was able I would play Sorry, Dominoes, Cards, Yahtzee or any game that she wanted but most of all I would spend every single minute that I have with her even if it meant laying beside her while she sleeps, caressing her beautiful face, kiss her forehead and everything else that I could do for her that I didn't get to do when my father died in 1998.
2006-07-13 09:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me some 14 yrs. ago , looking back I wouldn't change a thing . I lived 3hrs. away and drove up every wk end. to be with her , took her for drives to places she loved , ate ice cream , spent hrs. looking back over life n laughing , crying , loving . She lost her speech , but I always knew what she wanted to say . Told her as many times as I could fit in a day " I love You 'Left her know that because of her , I am the women I am today . I was adopted , so I also let her know how much love I had for her and how gratefull I was that the Creator placed me with her and for all she had done for me . I would sit n comb her hair , something she had done for me as a child .. For me , it was a wonderful way to show love . ( some may wounder on that one , childhood memories ) I just wanted to show her in every way humanly possible just how deep and how much I loved her . And that she would live forever with in my heart
2006-07-12 07:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by ghartmansr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out the family photo albums and share your memories. I would also talk about family stories, things that were funny. I would tell her how much I loved her. In my case, I told her that someday my son would have a baby girl who looked just like her. She absolutely loved that. (I don't feel bad about that because years before my son was born, I predicted his birth.) Other than that, there is not much you can do but offer love, companionship and perhaps a treat that she might enjoy.
2006-07-12 05:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing whatever she wants to do whether you agree with it or not? What ever is going to make her happy right now is the most important thing. My dad and I went through this about 9 years ago with my stepmom. I feel the most important thing to think about is not to have any regrets. Make the time that is left memorable.
2006-07-12 05:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by shw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her about things she remembered growing up in her life. I would open up the photo albums and hear her reminisce about each picture and hear all the old stories again.
I myself enjoy listening to old stories. I am fascinated in hearing how the life and times were in the "good old days".
What did you and your mom do the last 2 weeks of her life?
2006-07-12 05:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lyndee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. I think i would try to make her comfortable and continue to talk about all the wonderful things that happened during your life with her. Tell her how much you love her- alot
2006-07-12 07:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Dog Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i being in this situation before and the best way to do it remenbering how much she means to you let her know that she is not only your mother,but your friend and that you apreciate everything she has done for you since you were born.take her to places she always wanted to go and spent some quality time together just you and her.
2006-07-12 05:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by carmen eres mi bom bom de azucar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me, too.
I spent that time (besides caring for her) trying to get her to understand anything; she was either distracted (thought I was someone else) or unresponsive. The last three days she was unconscious.
2006-07-12 05:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with Tyler*...live it up...do what she's always wanted to but never been able to...take pictures too...make good memories...and don't count the time left, just live it! F all the heartless remarks too...LIVESTRONG
2006-07-12 11:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by nycpa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋