My cousin hook me up on an blind date. We hit it off perfectly. He was honest with me for the start, and said he was in love with someone else and didn't really know if they were getting back together. Well we dated for a month straight and protected sex. He invited me to a pool party his ex was there and so was I. I didn't know it at the time. well we had unprotected sex that night. days later he says his penis is all itches and is bothering him and ask me when was the last time I was check at the doc. My thing is I think he is lying and trying to get back with the ex and wants me out of the picture which is fine, but why did he have to hurt my feels so bad when I know I am okay. I made a doc appt to prove it.
2006-07-10 12:50:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Well I just found out that he really taught he cought something, but to find out it was razor bumps form where he had shave.
2006-07-13 12:43:18 · update #1
Maybe he did have something. You already got even cause you didnt get it. Good for you. Move on and find somebody better. Next time don't have sex so fast let alone unprotected. U got lucky this time.
Now that you know that you are good, get his a$s back. It may not be the right thing to do. But you will feel a whole lot better while you are doing it.
2006-07-10 12:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♫†☼☼♥Natasha♥☼☼†♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might of told you the truth ! you dont always get what they have... THANK GOD!, however ya'll only hooked up for a month. Just forget about him. the less attention you pay to them the more you want them an since he hurt you , you shouldnt want him back, and then he will be left like the looser that he is... Youll feel better once you meet someone else... Learn this every time you have a boyfriend keep a spare around... Oh and yes guys will f--- you and then throw you away . for this learn what I did no feelings involved when having sex N throw them away B-4 they get rid of you!!!! it works 4 me
2006-07-10 12:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by nahN2do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont live your life hating it is so consuming of your life your thoughts your energy , wash your hands of the sleeze you come across and move on , and follow up with that Dr.s apt
dont listen to that other girl , if he had got something by cheating and gave something to you by haveing sex with you unprotected (we all know to use a condom every time , if you dont you know YOU took the risk ) he may not had even known he had a problem yet ..
2006-07-10 16:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a common thing men do to get rid of someone so they can go with someone else .just be aware in the future that this can and does happen .if he's flitting from one girl to another like that think yourself very lucky he didn't give you some kind of disease. ,don't give yourself freely with or without protection to anyone ..in the long run men don't marry the girls they have sex with before marriage , because they think if she is giving it to me willy nilly ,she will do that even if we are married , to someone else ,don't be hurt or take revenge ,move on and be more selective in future .
2006-07-10 13:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get his and he probably did his ex and thats why he's itching. I'd go to the Dr. and get checked then get a copy of the results sent to him w/a letter from you telling him to go pound sand.(that was putting it politely)
2006-07-10 12:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know ur good then jus move on, cause if he did it only to break with u n wasn't man enough to keep it real, he'll regret it in the long run. Trust carma is a b#%ch!!
2006-07-10 13:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by spidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear leave it. go on with ur life. it's no use getting back. this kind of person doesnt deserve your attention. leave it all to time. remember there's Someone up there who sees all things. and judge fairly. it'l get back to him whatever he does.
just do good and u will be blessed. do unto others what you want others do unto u.
have a nice day..
2006-07-10 13:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by heavenscent9870 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this as a wake up call and always have protected sex with a condom with spermicide.
2006-07-18 20:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by J.B. Goode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let that man go, he ain't nothing but a mess. i know you can find better. but there is a lesson to be learned from anyone you date or talk to. you just have to keep ya eyes peeled
2006-07-13 12:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea get even with him, i mean what if you got the disease now or std?? ya know thats nasty.
if you do something like hurt his car or house wait a while so he wont know its you.
or if he works at a store or sumthin file a complaint on him say he was rude, rushing unhelpful.
something mean, thats messed up
hope your okay girl!
-Maria
2006-07-10 14:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋