help please?

Question

i had sex back in january and the other day i had some itching down there but i had shaved recently so i wasnt worried.then i got these sores and im afraid i have herpes.im afraid to get tested becuase i dont want my mom to find out im not a virgin.but i also gave the guy oral sex the first time i had sex and i never had a cold sore so im confused.herpes or wat? please help.

Answer 1

....The main signs of genital herpes are sores around the vagina, on the penis, or near the anus. Sometimes sores appear on the scrotum, buttocks, or thighs. The sores may appear about 4 to 7 days after infection. They usually begin as a rash of red bumps. The bumps then turn into blisters. It is common for the blisters to open up, sometimes causing severe pain. In time, the sores will scab over and heal. The first outbreak of genital herpes usually lasts 10 to 20 days until healing is complete.

During the first outbreak, many people have other symptoms:

Swollen glands in the groin
Discharge from the vagina or penis
Painful or difficult urination
Fever
Headache
Muscle ache

More women than men report severe symptoms, especially during the first genital herpes outbreak.
i really dont think its herpes ....put some alovera on it and give it some time it sounds like you got real bad razor burn..did you use a razor you use to shave your legs with?especially if the sores are only where you shaved.....if it dont clear up you will have to go to the doctor....

Answer 2

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Answer 3

The sores could be caused by several things. Thing is, you have to go to the Dr and find out. If it is serious, you have to get treatment. As suggested above, planned parenthood is a good start.
Brace yourself for the possibility that your mom will find out, possibly through billing, but if I know anything about mothers (I have a grown son) she'll get over it and in the end appreciate that you're getting checked, rather than run the risk of an illness. Ask the Dr to speak with her first before you do. He/she can soften her up.

Answer 4

If you GAVE a guy oral, then you wouldn't get genital herpes from that. You can get genital herpes from someone giving you oral, but you wouldn't get genital herpes from giving it.

It might be a really bad yeast infection, or bacterial vaginosis, infected hair follicles, or something else. Is there a Planned Parenthood or std clinic near you? You can go there and not have your mom find out. Or tell your mom you think you might have a yeast infection and get tested that way.

Regardless, you need to have a doc see you, and the sooner the better. Since its been since January that you have had sex, ask your doc for a type specific IgG herpes blood test, preferably the herpeselect test.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Oh, God, get to a doctor fast!! This is serious; there are risks involved that you don't even KNOW about. It could be some other STD...they are NOT child's play; that is WHY your mother didn't want you to have sex! It's too late now to hide it; you are in the big girls' club now and there is a lot of responsibility to yourself that is now yours... You can't go back and pretend to be an innocent; you need adult answers...

Answer 6

get your priority straight! you rather have your vagina rot and decay than letting your mom know you r not a virgin? If you ever want to have sex again and the possibility of having children in the future go to a doctor for a check up asap. If u gonna share your body with someone at least find out about the other person's history....

Answer 7

you dont get herps from oral sex, that is why it is called sexuelly transmitted disease . only through sex . if it was through the mouth we would have all got seek my dear. and also to corect you, cold sores is very common and is a different kind of herps , almost everyone has them ,it is just like flu. the herps fom sexually transmitted is very dangerous ,you might not even have herpes ,maaybe gonrreah or syphylis. see doc

Answer 8

are u a guy or a girl?? itchy might mean PUBIC LICE-- get medicated shampoo for thisssss. the sores might be genital herpes.... yes.... u need treatment quick and dont pass it on to soemone else.

o ur a girl ok... u may have had herpes ever since u gave that guy oral sex.. this may be the first outbreak. so basically u need to go see ur doctor to make sure.

Answer 9

does your doctor have to tell your mother everything...there is such a thing as patient privacy...can you make up some other reason to tell your mother you want to see a doctor?

Answer 10

look up www.internationalhealers.org