Please help me i'm so scared. well recently i went lookin throuhg this website that showed symptoms of Std's and while i was going throuhg i had seen Gonorrhea and last year around this time i had the same symtpoms showed on the wbsite. i've been horrified all year becaus im so scared ta go get tested for hiv. im 16 and if i knowi have hiv there's abosolutely no way im going to be able to finsih high school. I'd rather have my parent not know because i dont want them to be sad. whike reading i saw that Gonorrhea can led to HIV. i'm really not quite understanding that part. I was only having unprotected sex with one person who was my boyfriend so how would it be possible that i have HIV if i took so long to get tested for Gonorrhea? Couldi still just have Gonorrhea? please dont tell meto get tested because getting tested for Hiv is the last thing im trying to think about. HELP!!!
2006-07-07 23:32:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Could it be possible that I have it and my boyfriend doesnt?
2006-07-07 23:33:49 · update #1
Honey the best thing to do is go get tested. i know u are scared tell ur best friend to come with u. Just get tested and have ur best friend or someone u trust to read it to u. u don't want to spend the rest of ur life wonderin if u have HIV u better get tested now before it turns into AIDS good luck and i will pray for u
GOD BLESS YOU
2006-07-08 04:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by MRZ.SQUAREPANTS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gonorrhea does not turn into AIDS ever, two completely difference diseases. Gonorrhea is completely curable. If your boyfriend is the only person you have had unprotected sex with, then he is the only person you could have gotten HIV from. The chances are extremely slim that that has happened. Unfortunately the only way to know(and knowing is beautiful) is go get tested. Good luck, and use a condom from now on! Also, I should note since it sounds like you might be "benefiting" from the sex education in the states, Find out the right way to use a condom. Take care and protect yourself!
2006-07-07 23:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by johnhategoblins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that Gonorrhea can lead to HIV because most people with HIV have other illnesses too. HIV weakens the immune system. I wouldn't necessarily limit it to just Gonorrhea, but include any STD.
If you have unprotected sex, you're asking for trouble.
You can get low-cost to free testing at your local Family Planning Center (also known as Family Health Council) if you live in the United States. They are also very discreet.
Get tested. Find out. Then, don't have sex until you are married! Good grief, you're ONLY 16!!!!
2006-07-08 00:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Obama, 47 y/o political virgin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I know that you are scared. But you need to take a deep breath.
You do not have AIDS or HIV.
You do not need to get tested for HIV. You need to get educated.
Go to
aidsmythexposed.com.
You will find a lot of information there.
You are only 16. Are you partying with crystal meth, heroin, or crack all the time? Are you staying up all night. Are you having sex with 20 people a week? That is the profile of the 90% of so-called "AIDS" victims.
You are correct about the gonorrhea - there is a correlation between STD and "AIDS". Guess what, AIDS is not a new disease or a virus, it is just a lot of different sickness that people that who live terrible lives get or who don't get proper nuitrition or medical care. If you have gonorrhea, then get tested and treated if necessary.
Do a search on the Padian study. It showed that you need about 27000 sexual contacts to get "AIDS".
You and your boyfriend do not have AIDS.
2006-07-13 08:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonorrhea would not lead to HIV, it's totally different organism. If you're telling that you only have one sex partner which is your boyfriend, that's good. But the not so good side, are you his only partner? How did you get gonorrhea if not from him? How old is your boyfriend? If you have it then he must have it too. Even if it's only gonorrhea you still have to be treated. You need to go and see your doctor. You're still very young to be infected and suffer.
2006-07-08 01:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by marky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to go get tested but dis is wat i think u shudn't go along...have you discussed dis wit yo boyfriend? and Gonorrhea itself afta having it for a long time is not going to be HIV..you are a female and yes having a disease highers da risk of carrying off an HIV Infection while beening open to so much bacteria...its important for you both to be tested because you may not eva contract the Aids virus...you or him could be a carrier and neva become sick so it is best to get tested together....also if you are developed Gonorrhea so rapidy and again and again. You may need to douche wit low fat yogurt and drink caffenine atleast twice a month mostly before intercourse or after period. Because you don't want to use Vingar and develop PID....u eva need someone to talk too because i know how you feel my email address is rithickulous_07@yahoo.com....
2006-07-08 00:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tomeka B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beleive me u will no if u have gonorrhea, symtoms r different with guys and girls .guys no they have the big g 3-5days after contact with std,but it takes a month for girls to start showing symtoms og big g and the number one symtom is you feel like u have to pee but can not almost like a bad kidney infection,but u will have to go to the doc. to get relief which used to be 8 or9 pills at one time must be pcn. don't think it turns into hiv , hiv is a virus, gonorrhea is astd treated with antibiotics, viruses can,t be treated with antibiotics ex. common cold virus it has to run its course not compareing at all with hiv, but i bet with u just one partner u don.t have hiv dont no how many prople your boyfriend has been with but pzz use a condon if u have sex. pz dont worry just go to a health department and get blood drawn for hiv etc. good luck .
2006-07-07 23:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the only thing i can advice u to do is take it calmly and go get tested. you know if your man was with someone who had unprotecetd sex and had aids what is the hope you don't have it.haven't you ever heared to have protecetd sex.why on earth would a damn girl from 16 years have unproteceted sex for. you said you wouldn't be able to finish school. what if you are pregnat. you should've thought before you decided to open your legs. if you really cared for your parents why did you gave up your virginity for? no one can be sure if you have aids unless you GET TESTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 00:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait yet another month, and then lower back at 6 months..it frequently takes 3 months yet human beings say 6 to be secure. end stressful! you'llcontinual your self loopy. ensure you both bypass together to get examined for each STD/HIV and request they attempt for herpes and nevertheless haven't got unprotected sex with him and get examined each and every 6 months together.
2016-11-01 10:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have yoursekf tested dear. Sometimes things are not what we percieved it to be. HIV is quite a fearful virus to have. You can check http://health.gotblab.com/symptoms-of-acute-hiv-infection/aids-hiv/
2006-07-13 04:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by rubber fender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋