2006-07-07 22:48:38 · 8 answers · asked by armydoll_16 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
I am an American guy living in Thailand. Alot of people that visit Thailand think this country is one big whorehouse and bar. But let me tell you something. Believe it or not Thailand is a very conservative country. The prostitution is actually a reppercussion of this.
In many countries men treat women like crap. Here is one of them. It's perfectly o.k. for a man to pay for sex, but a girl must be a virgin to be wife material. Once a girl becomes sexually active, heaven forbid pregnant, her options of finding a husband drop dramatically.
This is really sad. I have met and dated several girls that are virgins at age 28, 31 & 33. Some of these woman have asked me to introduce them to sex. And the experiences have been horrible for me and her.
I'm not joking about this. It brakes my heart that these girls waited so long for a husband and in the process denied themselve's any sexual gratification. I don't mean to sound crude but a vagina is like a pair of shoes, you have to brake them in. A woman is doing an extreme diservice to herself by avoiding any sexual experimentation.
This one girl in particular, let me call her "Yui", crawls into my bed feeling very horny and wanting sex. I swear this to you to be true, I just can't get it in. Wev'e tried everything. The last time we tried I got very angry and said, "If you got f--ked 10 years ago we wouldn't be having this problem". She started to cry and I apologized. I felt as though I volunteered to introduce this girl to sex and I had no idea of the difficulty involved.
Seriosly, I'm a nice guy, the girls love me, I treat them very well, but it's difficult to be so patient. I'm not a machine. Even a healthy guy has a limited ability to control his penise as though it were a tool.
Also, sex toys are illegal in Thailand. That would be a great way to help these girls. Start with a very small toy and work up.
As for the prostitutes they seem to enjoy sex very much. Western men don't just provide them with money, they provide them with companionship, friendship, intimacy and SEX that they don't get from Thai men. In fact I'm really amazed at the sexual appetite of these women.
And also the prostitutes are not bad people. Most of them got pregnant by a Thai man that hauled butt, and she didn't want to have an abortion or give her child to an orphanage. Many Western guys have sympathy for them and treat them very well. A huge part of the "sex industry" is pure charity.
Anyhow, with all that said, I think a woman needs to take control of her sex-life. All that awkward sex we experience in our teens and early twenties serves a purpose. You don't want to experience that in your thirties.
Feel free to contact me if you have any thoughts on what I have shared with you. Thankyou, Mike
2006-07-08 01:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m a virgin & m very proud of it. i could go all over the world screaming yelling it "I AM A VIRGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" most likely u'll b wondering y m i proud. people r a virgin only once in a lifetime. i want 2 keep my legs closed until i get married 2 give my virginity 2 the guy whom i'll spend the rest of my life with. i believe only dumb people give up what is a gift. what if u end up pregnat at an early age or with aids till then they'll understand y it's dumb 2 not be a virgin.
2006-07-08 00:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry I am married so obviously not ...but as per your question I think someone who is a virgin should be proud of it .their was a guy I knew who use to be jeered by all his friends(excluding all the girls ) for this .They all had girlfriends and use flirt and pick up other girls while everyone was out in a group!!so obviously they did not believe in it...I on the other hand thought he should be "proud "!!! for keeping his own prinicple and not allowing his peers to sway him into changing his mind
2006-07-07 22:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 29 and is a virgin and yes, she's proud of it.
2006-07-07 22:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Morphious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the STD section is the wrong place to ask if people are virgins. Not quite the crowd you're looking for.
2006-07-07 22:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by jzc17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark Twain said," virginity is a good thing as long as it isn't taken too far". I agree.
2006-07-14 18:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by luther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya morphious daughter is 22 and shez virgin...
i am proud of HIM...
2006-07-07 23:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by curt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter 16 ..and i'm more than proud.
2006-07-07 22:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋