my ex who i split up with becaus eof my stressful situation is now saying he doesnt know whther he wnats me or in what way. he still finds me v. attractive and fancies me and says hecares for me he says when he thinks about what i did last month he doesnt feel he loves me but when he takes that month away he loves me more than anything in the world. i asked him if he wanted to cutit off completely and he sed we know so much about each other he could never do that. he sed he wants to foget the month of hell but doesnt know whether he can. i told him i want to work at the relationship and he said he camt at the moment. i hope like hell he relaises all the good stuff because he saying he is scared of this happening sgain and that i have driven him to a place where he wont get hurthe feels safe there. i wont hurt him i love him. what can i do? help please
2006-07-06 23:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some time and space. Maybe being away from the situation for awhile will help him understand his feelings better.
2006-07-06 23:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like that books says: He just isn't that into you. Or maybe it is the other way around, you're not sure about him. It sounds like you hurt him last month. If that is the case and he lets you come back in his life; you will never respect him and thus you will most likely end up hurting him again. You should just go your separate ways.There is a lot out there in this world. Go shopping. Learn from your mistakes and move on.
P.S. He may just want you for a booty call??? Be careful. Why add more stress to your life.
2006-07-07 00:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you and that is the bottom line.
If you were to have a bad episode in your life and needed time to sort things out he should have understood that from the beginning. But he is USING this to possibly check the waters for some one new.
The worse thing would be for him to not find another and come back to you because HE JUST DOES NOT TRULY LOVE YOU.
You will just be a squeeze until that some one else does come along.
2006-07-06 23:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIme and space is not going to work. Just forget him and find another guy. Trust me, I have experience on this.
2006-07-07 00:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by michelle712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him propose him again and if he accepts continue it r else dump him up and get a new bf i know its hard to forget him but cry 4r 3 days thats it u will forget him and then hunt 4r another s e xy dude have xyz wid him do wat i said i promise u will never ever think of u r ex boy frnd
2006-07-07 00:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait. You might want to prepare yourself for the worst though, you situation doesn't sound promising.
2006-07-06 23:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space, reassure him, thats all you can do is let him make the choice or you can chose to move on, its better to try after some time, if he cant accept what happend, then its best to move on.
2006-07-07 00:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we dont know what happen last month so we dont know what he will do. Sounds like something bad has happen and for it to last a month, who knows. We need to know what happen to beable to give our opinion.
2006-07-06 23:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to heel but first assure him of ur love for him and let him know that will never happen again.
2006-07-07 00:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk out the issues and feelings towards one another. try and reconcile
2006-07-06 23:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋