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DO YOU THINK IT'S POSSIBLE FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO LAST W/OUT HAVIN' SEX ???

I MEAN IT...

BCOZ MY FIANCEE DOESNT SEEM TO THINK SO...

2006-07-06 22:44:01 · 27 answers · asked by White Queen 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

well it depends, if your not ready for sex or if you've already had sex. I think if you are waiting and he doesn't want to wait then it's b/c thats all he wants out of the relationship. But eventually the sex is gonna happen if your physically attracted to each other. And sex is part of a healthy relationship.

2006-07-06 22:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 4 · 0 1

There are so many marriages out there that have last 60something years and they didn't have sex till marriage. I'm assuming thats what you mean. If you mean no sex at all not even when you are married then there is no way it will last. But I don't think you are stupid enough to mean that. You seem very smart. I think if the guy is your fiance and he really loves you, you can wait till your wedding night. It can't be all that far away! Then you will have the most amazing sex because you waited and anticipated. I think he might just be getting impatient and want "the prize" now. Don't give in. I think you would be so dissappointed if you gave in so close to being married!

2006-07-07 14:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by granolaperson 3 · 0 0

your fiance is right because if you love someone, the most intimate way to show this is to come together as one intimately, loving each other freely, completely, but having said this it is not the be all and end all of a relationship, it is no good just being able to communicate through sex and not much through verbal there has to be a good balance between the two, remember sex enhances the love between the two people involved, i think you should both reach a compromise, but if this continues it could jeopardize the relationship. Good luck.

2006-07-07 06:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It could last, but the point here is that your fiance doesn't think so, and for him to make his opinion clear to you means that he is complaining and it also means that somehow he is warning you that he might have to quit, that is if your question is a description of your relationship with him. Sex can enrich a relationship and make it stronger, it can also damage a relationship if one side feels that the experience he had from sex in this relationship is not what he expected. In any relationship what is as important as sex is honest communication and harmony between you two.

2006-07-07 06:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0 0

If he doesnt think so, then gal am gonna give it you straight. It is not possible. The only way it would be possible is if you both thought it was. Do not compromise yourself though unless you think he is really worth it and you wont have regrets after it. Follow your heart, it will take you to the right place.

2006-07-07 05:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by gorgeous 2 · 0 0

I don't think so, not in the long term at least. Oh, he can wait for you a year or three, but a committed relationship without sexual relations would not work, I think.

2006-07-07 06:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes i held onto a relationship 4 1 year w/out it and were were still friends after we broke up and i really think that thats y

2006-07-07 11:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by klo 2 · 0 0

Dump him now...it will only get worse...note that most of your other answers have been men...they think very differently about sex. If he is just not wanting to wait...he is scum. I know it seems harsh but come on...you are worth it!

2006-07-07 05:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Virginia F 1 · 0 0

the romantic in me says yes...but years of experience tells me no...even the strongest love needs a physical release or it withers like a plant deprived of water..after all, love is the emotional manifestation of our instinct to procreate, and to procreate you need sex, so when the sex is gone the instinct kicks in and tells the emotions to start searching for a new home...sorry

2006-07-07 07:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 0 0

it is possible but haveing sex is the most common thing in relationships thats why he thinks that

2006-07-07 05:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 1 · 0 0

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