I am one of the good guys, and I would like to offer some good advice and not just for you, but for all of the readers here intent on looking for an angle to be with you.
First of all, you state that you want to leave, not that you need to leave, and many supposed men here are encouraging you to pack your things and do it., and shame on them.
If you were there girlfriend and you were on the Internet, and they really loved you, and for what ever reason you were miserable and temporally felt your relationship was rotten, no matter how temporary your feeling then, I am sure that they would not want other guys giving you advice like this.
When are Men going to start behaving as Men, and stop trying to undercut there fellow Man over relationships, and realize that it is because of there own behavior and double standard that good relationships are not only hard to find, but also hard to maintain if other men are going to constantly try to be weasels.
With regard to your question, like I said your statement is brief as to why you are feeling as if you want out of your relationship, however I would suggest that if it is possible you speak with your dad directly, or add additional details about why you are feeling this way, as I feel confident that you would not be with the man you are with currently unless you had strong feelings for him, perhaps you can work your problems out, in stead of fleeing from your situation.
If you cannot work your problems out, and you still feel your relationship is unbearable, then please get out of it, however please don't go with a weasel of a man.
2006-07-06 23:17:41
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answered by Thoughtfull 4
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Your still in the relationship ? Wow talking about before quiting a job , have a job . Get a new guy before you leave the guy . Promise if we hit it off that I'll replace you before I break up with you . All good guys read .Should have said is anyone bored please email me . Not I have a guy but seeking change .
2006-07-07 05:47:34
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answered by Fairy Tale 4
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YOU JUST HAVE TO PICK UP WHAT YOU WANT TO TAKE WITH YOU AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. DON'T LET HIM know what you are doing and don't let any of your Friend no where you are going if he know them because they may slip up and say the wrong thing. and when you do take off make sure you have money where you are not coming back. there are a lot of good guys out there .
2006-07-07 05:49:11
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answered by gbinnicker 3
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Not much detail, as in,......... are there children involved?, is it an abusive relationship?, is it both?, are you a high school aged person?, are you an adult?, is he just lazy won't keep a job?, are you too prissy and he can't handle your whiny behavior?. Basically need more info. The best i can tell you is talk to him and explain it's over in a mature fashion.
2006-07-07 05:48:11
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answered by J P 4
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C'mon, try patching things up before going. I mean, you should talk to your man first, and find out the real score. Never leave a part of your life hangin'.
Maybe after that you could, like, meet someone out there who's better. Trust me, there's lots out there.
Cheer up!
2006-07-07 07:53:04
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answered by kristian121989 4
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What are you waiting for if it is really that bad then what are you still doing there, don't let the fear of being alone get the best of you as its never to late and you might just miss your boat it could pull in and out of the harbour at any time. mail if you wanna chat.
2006-07-07 05:45:56
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answered by Rui C 2
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Make a final goodbye and try not to see the guy or talk to him again. Wait a month and then begin circulating again in right places to meet nice guys.
2006-07-07 05:45:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Then do it what's your problem. Call a girlfriend pack your bags, move out while he's not there, and then leave him a Dear John note. Simple, and not messy. If you think he'll track you down at a girlfriend's. Move farther away, to a relative's.
2006-07-07 05:43:55
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answered by NobleMaN 2
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dont wait another second still in there if its that rotten, u even had the time to get it posted in Y! answers
2006-07-07 05:48:29
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answered by wakeup247_m 2
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for new relation ship u need 2 send ur profile .thats ur age , place and atleast ur email id
saurabhgaur1988@yahoo.com
sam ;)
2006-07-07 05:46:11
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answered by Anonymous
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