What is specail about purity and virginity...
I would want to be with someone who is fun and affectionate...
If you are with a virgin its all worrying about hurting her and stressful and tense...
Its more fun being with someone who can't wait to see your tto pounce on you and startt making out as they love doing it and especailly with you and you with them...
Who has no weird relgious sex morality but bases morality on not bullying and things like that.
Hippie ethic appear best.
Why would you want someoen to have been miserable and alone. unless you are young too or you have not done much yourself and looking for someoen who wants to try things with you like doing it on a train, in a golf course, etc who is not board of it.
Should it not be something to get out of the way ideally with someone special but stuff the marraige bit and waiting till you are 30.
Do whats right for your age... ie high school make out in cinemas and car on some cliff, etc
2006-07-06 21:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And the std pregnancy argument is fixed with sex ed and multipile contraception
2006-07-06 21:41:28 · update #1
Er 24... and co...
WHTA PART OF USING MULTIPLE CONTRACEPTION IE PILL AND CONDOMS AND PROPER SEX ED DIDN'T YOU GET?
2006-07-06 21:52:21 · update #2
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Also why do some of you have MUD FETISIHES WHO THINK YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX IN MUD...
Ie you think sex is dirty and virgintiy is clean.... have you not heard of soap and showers? what do you think after sex people don't have bathes anymore?
2006-07-06 21:54:39 · update #3
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OK Mojo you talk about second hand so explain why employers want people with experience so they know what they are doing? And don't employ rookies?
2006-07-06 22:16:00 · update #4
Sexy chick...
I dont do drugs and I virtually never drink... Ie mostly pepsi in clubs and alchol slows me down...
You need to think litterally...
as said I have been with a virgin, she just lay there and was not much fun as it felt like she was doing me a favour...
I like people for who they are no who thye have been with.
Adn been with open minded to sex hippie girls and they were much better kissers and it felt mutual...
So see nothing special about waiting... You just miss out.
And waiting for one specail person means you wait forever as you wont meet them
2006-07-06 23:05:57 · update #5
Some people are fixated by "virgins" or being a "virgin"...
They think that makes them a better person... Peronsally, I don't care what a woman sexual history is, as long as we can have lots of fun!!!
But if they want to wait until they are married - that is their choice... Even if the other partner is a little disappointed that they aren't as good as someone who has had plenty of experience...
All this is a hold over from centuries past, the woman must be pure and virtuous and anything more and she is a harlot and is given the scarlet letter...
Women judge themselves and others more harshly than any man... It is quite scary...
2006-07-06 21:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity is a pecular thing. Those who had it, lost it on the way, in a real stupid manner, not knowing its worth, and now want it back. Its like old wine compared to spirit.
Those who dont have it, dont have the trouble that comes with it, ie safeguarding it every single moment, not enjoying life, outer
masturbation, just plain old fiddling. Now thats not how its done.
You got the wish then do it all the way. Why suggest restrictions of weird religion taboo, and things like that. If hippie ethics are fine, that ok. And bout doing your thing on the golf course,school, well, the place and time does not matter atall.
If you have the inclination, any time is the righttime.
Save it, how long? for whom?
2006-07-06 22:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you don't need to believe in purity or virginity at all, that's your choice. If you want someone who has no inhibitions, sexually, then go for it. Chances are that person will also "stray" to have encounters with others too. But that's ok, because you are free and liberated from all those outdated things like morality and monogamy.
Since you don't mind that your partner has some "miles" on her, then I guess you won't settle for a NEW CAR ...you'll settle for a USED one.
You don't need to buy NEW CLOTHES...cause you will settle shopping at YARD sales and SECOND HAND stores.
You don't need to eat FRESH FOOD...cause you'll settle for what's been thrown away in someone else's TRASH.
You don't need a GOOD PAYING JOB or EDUCATION...cause you'll settle for whatever HAND OUTS the GOVERNMENT will toss your way.
You don't need to live with MOMMY or DADDY anymore...cause you are an "ENLIGHTENED YOUNG PERSON" who can make it in the real world with his "ideal" significant other.
You are in for quite a surprise. Life is not found in a cinema, car, cliff, train or golf course. Real life will ejaculate all over your Xanadu.
Additional information: Apples and Oranges.....companions in the Food Triangle....opposites in every other way much like the comment concerning employers/employees. Gee, where does that leave the terminology....."job training"?? Let's face it, you are master of your own ship. What you do, where you go, and whom travels aboard your vessel is entirely up to you. Find an answer amongst those represented here, which mimics your way of thinking and bestow the 10pts. There is no need to debate what you have finalized in your own mind as true.
2006-07-06 22:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Mojo Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sex is fitting to some and not to others --- If someone wants to save themselfs and use there sexual energy for jobs then let it happen but if they are saving themselfs because of outside reasons then they... will most likly be mad once they do have it and relise "man o man what the hell have i been waiting for." Seeing how the first time is normaly the best time since they have no prior experence. So sex should happen as often as possible. because sex is good healthy and free.. most of the time
2006-07-06 21:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by american_stallionn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partly it's about perversion and male dominance, partly about love. Imagining that nother man touched my girlfriend is not a good feeling.
2006-07-06 21:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity to some is the best gift to be given to your future husband
it simply says you are clean
2006-07-06 21:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if u want to screw some girl that's had over 200 dicks in her, your choice buddy. but idk mabe it's a personal thing but if i have sex i don't wanna be screwing the same ***** some weak *** dude was ******* yesterday man. If that's what u want hell y not invite peeps u know, dont' know, and even h8 and all have a gang bang fest with your g/f, the more the marrier i guess idk.
2006-07-06 21:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is so confused. You like to know about what?
You are very lucky because I am so free in this time.
2006-07-06 21:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by PiPi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs are not good for you! the questions you ask are all so bizzare, leave the drugs
2006-07-06 22:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bombshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl dont have to worry that they are sleeping with ur loved one... you dont get called names
2006-07-06 21:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋