I have been with my guy for a year. He had to move away for a few months to take care of family business. I freaked out and broke up with him thinking I had to make that choice because he had to leave. I was wrong and now I want him back, but is he over me now? He has called a few times, left messages, tells me he still loves me but just trying to get things done. He has even agreed that Long distant relationships are a pain, but yet he still calls and writes. Is he over me now and is there anyway I can get him back?
2006-07-06 20:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not over you, he just wishes you didnt make that decision so quickly without figuring out if it was going to work out first... take care and let him know you want him back he is more than willing to have his girl back.
2006-07-06 21:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by hoebag82 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my opinion:
well, if he calls, writes and tells you all that stuff you wrote about, what makes you think he's over you? seems to me that he wants to be with you, now the ball is in your court.
did you have a chance to live your dreams, live life? just make sure not to settle down in a rush.
i have no idea how old you are; i don't think it is a good idea to get into any committed long term relationship before you're 25. for marriages before 25, the divorce rate is very high.
good luck.
2006-07-06 21:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by donewithschool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey. he still loves you, if he didn't, he wouldn't contact you and try to talk to you.
If he's taking care of family business then let him, if you are in love you stick with each other through rough times, he probably put himself in your position, and that's why he's not angry at you. That's what love is. how can you get him back? tell him. just like you told him you didn't want to be together because he was going away. you tell him you care and you love him. its ok to tell that person how you feel, specially when it sounds like he cares a great deal. its ok sweetie, just talk to your guy, he's yours..its up to you to realize that. he couldn't be more clear with all the hints he's giving you.
2006-07-06 21:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he not over you yet but i tell you one thing he is looking for a other realionship and he keeping you on a string just end case he cant find a other realionship he know you well take him back.or you have a other choice moved to were he is if you want him back? if not you need to move on in life and find a other realionship.
2006-07-06 21:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get in touch with him, speak to him, inform him ur thoughts clearly, hope everything happens good for u
2006-07-06 21:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shriikan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not over you. Just believe you can get him back and you will. You should reach him and tell him you are sorry. You miss understood distance.
2006-07-06 21:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nnamsco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you whore around at least once while he was gone?
If not you can get him back.
2006-07-06 21:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe get over him ..
Remember there are plenty more fish in the sea.!!!
2006-07-06 21:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by davies66108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must suck him off first.
2006-07-06 21:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋