2006-07-06 20:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by obitdude2 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it goes both ways...
Men
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They hail you as their morning star
Because you are the way you are.
If you return the sentiment,
They'll try to make you different;
And once they have you, safe and sound,
They want to change you all around.
Your moods and ways they put a curse on;
They'd make of you another person.
They cannot let you go your gait;
They influence and educate.
They'd alter all that they admired.
They make me sick, they make me tired.
-Dorothy Parker
2006-07-06 21:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by answer faerie, V.T., A. M. 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Hello by the way fab - meaning great question how can I explain to you your a guy and you will die a guy right a man. Here it goes I never changed my fiance for my convinience he is wh he is and I love that hes an original not a copy of any one and I accept him tal como es (the way he is and look from a girls point of view yes it's important for a girl to hear it and say it but I believe actions are better than words Words come and Go but Love is forever its everlasting infiniti and beyond sound familiar for example if I had a speech impedament how would I show love if I can't say it I know it but I can show it get my drift?????
2006-07-06 21:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've really never completely understood that myself, and I am a chick. Of course, I don't try to change guys because it's just creepy when someone changes before your eyes. I guess the best explanation would be we have a tendency to dream of falling in love and everything being perfect so we try to fix anything we think is wrong. It never turns out perfect no matter what we do, and the picking usually gets our heartbroken. What we don't realize is we did it to ourselves.
2006-07-06 21:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dakotah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the thing is gals always get attracted to the bad guys
naughty types not taking thing that seriour types
but when the word love comes in they want stability, commitments may be marriage
for that they want a responsable guy
emotionaly attached etc
so they just try to change the guy they like to the guy they want for a stable relation simple.
2006-07-06 21:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably say, not change his personality, but change things about him that you think its best for him. for example. when I met my bf, he smoked. and so did I. I decided to quit, and he kept smoking. He was gettin sick most of the times, coughs, chest pains, and sore throats. So I didn't stop until he stoped smoking. The things I have tried to change about his life, are only the things I Think are bad for him. Otherwise, I Like him just the way he is.
when you're in love with someone, you want the best for them, and you worry about them. I would never try to change the way my bf dresses or talks, or eats. ..but I will always have his best interest at heart.
2006-07-06 20:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetic Defualts.
2006-07-06 20:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sylvia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls do that just to make him fit properly into their world the "dream guy" thingy but the truth is u really cant change nybody, if u love him den ul accept him d way he is.
at d moment he will probably dance to d girls tune but once shes gotten into him, he goes back 2 wot he really is.
2006-07-06 21:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean word, right?
Girls are genetically hardwired to try to make their partner perfect (in their eyes). Men just have to get used to that and try to love them anyway. If she is a fox that gives a man what he needs, she will be worth it. But she will be unable to just accept him as he is.
2006-07-06 21:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mothering instinct.Just beware later on when they complain you're not the man they met/married.It happens to all of us,learn to live with it or turn to the dark side of the force.LOL!!!
2006-07-06 21:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mika K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think once you love them you will do anything 4 them and so they try to fix things they dont like about the guy
2006-07-06 20:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by ally k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋