I Recently married a man who hates his sister he thinks she is such a ***** she has some kids that love me! I do adore her kids and they do me as well.
But the things that she is saying makes me want to have less and less to do with her and her kids!
She will do anything for her husband and nothing for her kids
I think she is a back stabber a real bad one.
Her kids are bad they don't listen!! I feel that when her kids are with us it is our job to discipline them because they are not my kids and I don't feel that I should be doing it anyone else feel this way???
2006-07-06 20:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by kiwi_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As far as your sister inlaw, she is being real stupid and neglecting her children. As far as you go when they are with you then your damn right you can disipline them there are then on your turf not the turf of thier parents.. Keep up the hard work and don't let her run your life too, or even come close to destroying your relationship with your husband its not worth loseing what you have because of your lawful siblings. take care and good luck.
2006-07-06 21:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by hoebag82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you ready to get into battle when the kids finally revolt against their mom? you will be stuck in the middle of things. yes, your relationship with her kids is one good thing, and very nice, but don't dive in, don't plan on being their hero unless you really are ready and serious about it. besides, keep in mind you married the man, to get the man and to be with that man, not to save the man's nieces and nephews. Have your own child and keep your distance, not too far if you want, but not too close. don't plan on changing the world by changing the woman, you won't win. relatives hate her and couldn't do anything about her, what more for you? If you are up to it, then challenge yourself, be the calatalyst for change. attack her, change her, and make a happy family out of them. then write your story and make it a movie starring robin williams and julia roberts, with merryl stripp.
2006-07-07 03:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by mimosopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you all have many issues.... Either keep her out of your life or deal with her on a limited basis. Good luck :)
2006-07-07 03:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your responsibility to tell them what is good and what is bad. And it is their to responsibility to decide what to do. But if they do not listen, you should not worry too much. Time and nature will take care of them.
2006-07-07 03:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would stay away. it sucks when someone accuses you of trying to help discipline their child thats out of control. usually turns out bad. i wouldnt want to deal with it.
2006-07-07 03:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by dmori23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.. when the kids are in your home you have every right to discipline them.if she is so bad why bother with her.. i know i went threw it..
2006-07-07 03:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by peaceandallthatjazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to dr phil
2006-07-07 03:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by bittykittietwinklepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself out of it.
Just love and care them, as you love others.
2006-07-07 03:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't deal with her at all.
2006-07-07 03:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋