Ok. I went out with this guy twice and then he asked me to marry him on the second date..but he told me that i reminded him of his daughter's mother that died in a car accident two years ago..then told me that he loves me with all his heart and that his daughter loves and misses me too...What do I do? Is he crazy or what? Or is it possible that he just firmly believes that I'm am his dead wife? Help Me...I'm so confused...
2006-07-06 20:26:40 · 19 answers · asked by lyn_x_three 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the question is ..do you like this guy?
this is kinda of a cool situation...only happens in the movies. Don't think of him as crazy, instead put yourself in his position, what if you met someone that looked like someone you were in love with..who died? how would you feel?
I say give him a shot, don't marry him just yet..lol, but go out on another date, tell him straight up that your not his wife, and that your very sorry she died, your very flattered he thinks your so beautiful, but if he wants anything to happen between the two of you, he needs to get to know you, and leave the past where it belongs.
Cool situation though, don't be silly and get crazy over it lol, its life,,zhit happens. lol
but if you don't like him, just tell him you're not interested. the last thing he needs is to loose his wife, and then loose the one that looks like her without notice.
2006-07-06 20:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a bit creepy, well ALOT creepy. i'd stay very far away from him. He clearly has alot of emotional & mental problems, & it's not a good idea to get...involved in that.
I wouldn't say "crazy" exactly, but he needs help more than anything.
the best thing to do is, let him down easy. Tell him he should talk to someone & you're not the same as his wife that passed away.
Be careful, i get a feeling he might harress you.
2006-07-07 03:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a wack job, or Ashton Kutcher is gonna come out soon and tell you that you got PUNK'D. Either way, the outcome is not gonna go over well for you. Get away from the kreap and find a better guy, there are plenty of them out their. This guy has serious issues and needs a good counselor.
2006-07-07 03:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I give him the coochy! I'm just playin'! He's demented! You need to drop that lunatic! Then again if you're on 'Answers' asking what to do, then who's to say that you haven't developed feelings for him yourself. You need to stop using his daughter as an excuse! If you have feelings for this man then you need to own up to them! It'd be obvious to me if I were you that insane people need all the space they can get! You could ask him to see pictures of his wife. If she looks like you then, run for the hills! if you want to throw him off your trail, the next time he mentions her you say, "Stop saying that! What? Are you into having sex with dead people or something?" Then hit him with the mace! - it's possible!
2006-07-07 03:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are so dumb. When there is a genuine nice guy, they run off or chase the guy off. When the guy is a nut job, they are confused and want to stick around to become a next CSI case.
The answer you are looking for is to run, you dumb girl.
2006-07-07 03:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to think it over more objectively and soundly. he may not be crazy (the mad type) but perhaps crazy for you. Time is the best teacher and examiner! It always judges well!
2006-07-07 03:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by bbett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda odd. i dont think he thinks you are his dead wife but i think that himself and possibly his daughter also bery much want you to fill the hole. and who better than the person that reminds them of her. i dont think at this point i would accept and i may stay away.
2006-07-07 03:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by dmori23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest in a very crowded well lite area that prozac is not a bad thing for him to consider taking. if he should become upset, run.
2006-07-07 03:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by hartlinemama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship quick smart.
2006-07-07 03:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by malroymck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you resemble his deceased wife. might be a good idea to stay away from him.
2006-07-07 03:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋