Is it normal to be single?

Question

Im 22 yrs old almost 23, just got out of a 5 yr relationship 6 months ago. I talk to guys all the time that wana date me but Im not really looking for anyone at the moment. Guys are always approaching me tho. Is it normal to be single or should i start dating again?

Answer 1

It is actually more normal to be single this day in time than it is to not be single. It seems constantly dating new people and sleeping with many has become the replacent for the real relationship. It is sad but don't worry, you aren't abnormal. And remember it IS ok to be alone sometimes, you don't have to feel pressured to date right away. Enjoy the time you have with you, you are the best friend you will ever have. You will never tell you what to do and you can take yourself out wherever you want without having to consult anyone about it.

And don't worry about guys asking you, don't say yes unless you want to go out with that person. The right one will ask you soon enough.

Answer 2

It's not a question of whether it's normal. That can differ for everyone. In your case, you've been in a relationship since around 18. In my book, you really haven't had time to explore the many possibilities and different people out there. That's the bad thing about getting tied to a relationship at too early an age. When you're ready, get out there and experience what life is all about and the different people who are in it. You don't have to choose between being single or in a relationship. Live your life and be open to the possibilities. You don't know yet what may come your way.

Answer 3

Being single is the way we come into the world, but it's also natural and normal to want a relationship because that's the way we are designed. If you find that you don't want a relationship, then it would abnormal and wrong if you place yourself in one in order to feel "normal." From my experience...and I am an old woman compared to you...the wrong relationship can make you feel abnormal because a bad relationship is unhealthy and can lead to serious problems and tough inner struggles. Because "normal" has such a broad range of what is acceptable, its easier to define what is "abnormal." The most important thing to remember is this: To thine own self be true. Never go into a relationship of any kind unless you are doing it to please yourself. But always choose wisely. Remember this, too: You can change your mind at any time about starting a relationship, but ending one isn't as simple as just changing your mind. Take your time. Go slowly. I hope all of this doesn't sound too negative, because I am fully supportive of dating, love, and happily ever after. A healthy, loving relationship is wonderful, but that doesn't mean it's the right choice for everyone. Keep in mind that in this day and age, a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

Answer 4

You should start dating when you feel comfortable. You may still have some unresolved emotional issues from your previous relationship. Take some time for yourself-learn a new hobby or join some type of club so you can meet different types of people. Don't rush into another relationship-- it wouldn't be fair to your or the new guy (who'll more than likely be a rebound person) So to answer your question...it's normal to be single.

Answer 5

YES it is, no need to worry about it. Ending a 5 yr. relationship is something really heavy for you. Though you might have moved on already, I do agree that you still need time before you jump into anything again. Just remember not to close your doors for new opportunities. Start dating if you already feel like it. Try datings sites like webdate or the other likes too if it suits you good. No pressure there. =D

Answer 6

Take your time and enjoy being single for a while. Have fun and do things you always wanted to do! When I was 22 I was free as a bird and happy go lucky! You will know when you are ready to start dating again. It's okay to date some, just keep it light for a little while.

Answer 7

I was married at your age. So this is kind of out of observation of firends.

Alot of people dont typically like to jump into the dating thing unless they have thier eye on someone.. unfortunately this might be a problem if your always being approached. ... If someone interests you you should date but.. dating out of some sort of concept that if you dont... youll never be with someone is untrue.

So many people I know got sick of dating and a year or five or even a week later someone just arrived in thier life that made them feel completely diffrent then everyone else.

So.. I gues basicly .. im saying that.. quaility comes.. but only when its time to.

Answer 8

If you are dating just to be normal than you are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Relax and take some you time. If you met the right guy there would be no question and you'd date him in a heart beat. Until then why not get to know the most important person in your life... you!

Answer 9

Okay it is always normal to be single. you never have to worry about that. I've been single for a long time and I love it. So don't ever compromise yourself for what others want from you. If you don't feel comfortable going into a relationship right now then don't just be comfortable with yourself.

Answer 10

I think it is perfectly fine to remain single until you feel ready to go into another relationship. You just broke off from a 5 years one and though it has been 6 months, you probably just take your time and wait until a good one shows up.

So yes, you are quite normal.