how do I know if my girlfriend loves me?

Question

She says she does, but how can I be sure?
what are the signs that she does truly love me?
I would like to think that she does, but you know,
there is no telling. Sometimes I am paranoid.
I know that I love her with all my heart. and that
is the honest truth. but how do I know if that is
the truth? How do I know that what she says
is true? She says she loves me but how do I know?

Answer 1

Just ask her and tell her to be honest with you.
If she gives you affection and attention, then you shouldn't be worried.
But sometimes, we girls just have a lot of things going on, on our lives and we may become distant from the people around us. But that dosen't mean that we don't care about them.

Answer 2

How long have the two of you been a couple? Who said "I love you" first? If you are sure you love her then don't doubt yourself. However, if you said those three little words first, she might have felt pressure to return them too quickly. Does she enjoy being with you? Do you make her happy, make her laugh, even make her cry? Has your relationship been a steady one? Any fights? Any cheating? These are all important factors to concider. I'm sure that if she is a good, honest girl then if she said "i love you" she meant it. If she's your girlfriend and you love her with all your heart, TRUST HER. Trust is vital to a lasting and loving relationship.

Answer 3

well first of all, when it comes to love and affection, girls are usually very vocal, but in ur case im thinkin that she isnt, so, i think u should be able to tell by the way she is around u and how she treats you, and another thiing, this paranoid thing might only be u, this can ruin a relationship if u dont start trusting her. but if u really arent sure, communication is the key.

hope i helped.

Answer 4

The secret is not to go by what she says, but by her actions. Does she show you that she loves you in the things that she does? In other words, does she go out of her way to celebrate your birthday (or things like that), or does she blow you off on weekends to hang out with the girls (or things like that)? Does she treat you with respect, or do you get the impression she is using you at times. What she tells you means little... it is what she does that tells the true story.

Answer 5

You know by her telling you, why can't you just leave it at that? Instead of wanting to question her all the time. Don't be so paranoid and let her be or you will end up losing her. Good luck budz hope you can live with my answer.

Answer 6

Actions speak louder then words. Does she do things that show you her love??? Examples, she is at the store and p/u your favorite food just because she was thinking about you?? Does she rub your back as much as she wants you to rub hers??? Think about what she does and you will know right away what her true feelings are!!!!

Answer 7

You dont have to know. You have to feel, realise, and enjoy love.

Love is a many splenderous thing.A rainbow of happines, fluttering its butterfly wings, breezing in happiness and spreading joy everywhere.

Just let he blanket of joy smoother you.Stop being paranoid.

Answer 8

Tell her what you're feeling, and ask her. It's an issue for the both of you to figure out, not for you to figure out by asking complete strangers on the internet.

Answer 9

I can tell you right now she loves you because she stopped doing me last week because she told me she only wanted to be with you . Now that is love if I ever saw love.She is the 1st one to ever give me up.

Answer 10

If a person really loves you, they shouldn't have to tell you (but they should really really want to). Ask her friends if you're still not sure, they'll definately tell you if she's madly in love with you.