We have been together for 4 years, I do everything for him.
2nite I went out with a new girlfriend, who I met at work. This is the second time we went out, last time we hung out was like 2 months ago.
We went out for drinks, and I got back at 1am.
When I got home, my bf started hintin that I might be cheating, because he hasn't met my friend. My bf doesn't really know any of my friends, because I barely have any of my own. We always hang out together, with our mutual friends. I don't understand why he's acting like this, I do everything for him, I'm 99% of the time with him, except when I work.
I haven't introduced my new friend to him, because we just met, and I think she's cool. I don't want to scare her off with my bf acting krazy.
What can I do?
I'm gonna have him read your answers, so maybe he can listen to voice of reason.
Thank you all
2006-07-06 19:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by SuperGirls™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he shd trust u...anyways u were out with girl and not a guy,,,so he shd not react on this...anyways when guys go out with there boyfriends we never qts them and if we do also they just shout at us..so why is he gettin so worried when u were with girl only...OH GODDDD THESE GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-06 19:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by t U l i P 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sigh...I've been in your shoes, its soooo not fun. First of all, he sounds too needy and controlling. Do you feel like you always have to rush home because you're afraid if you're late he'll think you're cheating? do you turn down your friends alot when they ask you out? do you feel its just easier to stay home so you don't have to get the third degree every time you do something without him? you say you do everything for him. well, he doesn't want to lose that free ride of easy street. He knows exactly what he's doing, he's playin you. I know you re not happy, you re not able to be yourself anymore. I'm sorry Hun but get out of that relationship now! Think about it, why are you doing everything for him?? So he'll be happy and not accuse you. Are you happy? hell no you cant be, you re too busy trying not to rock the boat. I wish all the best , please take care :-)
2006-07-07 03:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by evil2innocence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously afraid of losing you .Introduce him to your friend to help him with his insecurity. tell your new friend about him thinking you are cheating, so she understands if he acts wierd. If he continues acting strange afterwards, it is a control issue with him. Think then about getting out of this relationship before it goes too much further.
2006-07-07 03:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to a 3-some with your new friend. He will certainly like that and cannot accuse you of cheating on him when it's only you three. Plus, you might find that you like the girl (sexually) better and then you can dump that loser. Try it. You might like it.
2006-07-07 04:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go out with your friend, take a pic on your cell and send it to your BF and say something in the message like "i hope you're having fun while im out with the girls, i miss you though. love you."
2006-07-07 03:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u introduce ur new friend to ur bf...then explain to him that u hav been hanging out with ur new girlfriend...talk to him nicely...don't start shouting at each other...things wont get any better with the shouting match goin on
2006-07-07 02:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by capricorn_bay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just protective. let him meet this friend, and show him that you arent cheating. some guys are very protective, u just have to learn to live with it
2006-07-07 02:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by ezza_rules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your serious that your not cheating and you would never because hes the only man you think about. good luck
2006-07-07 02:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kalysta A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your BF hang w/ you & your friends.If he does'nt trust you after that dump him.
2006-07-07 03:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your truelly not cheating then just tell him. let him meet your friend and tell him everything you have told us.
2006-07-07 02:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋