k guys this has been goin on 4 so long now that i need someone to be honest with me and give me your honest opinion k. tell me what do u think this means ok, about 3 months ago i went to see a new dr right? he started off being like really nice and we got along really well, he took me into his personal ofc after my appointment and sat me down and wrote me a prescription, and when i went to get it he snatched it back like 4 times before he let me get it, he then scheduled me for a new appointment, at my next appointment he said that he wasnt really accepting new patients but he would let me be his patient if i was nice to him and he started to laugh. then that very next day he called me at home and left a message saying that he wanted to call and see how my visit had went and to relax and enjoy my weekend. then at my next visit he asked me what kinda gum i was chewing and asked for a piece of it becuz he was a gum freak.lol then he asked me a personal question about my sex life.
2006-07-06 19:36:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok then he took my bloodpresure that had been high previously and he told me that HE was the one who brought it down. then at my next appointment he wanted to know all my business like if i were in school and wanted to know aht i had been up to and he is always telling me how nice i look like 4 times in a visit, its just weird. im not gunna lie i like the attention and im starting to develope a crush on him, he is like 50 and im 22, he stares at me all the time . he will sit a chair directly in fron of mine and just stare at me with his head tilted , its so weird u guys i have never dealt with this, do u this he likes me?
2006-07-06 19:41:09 · update #1
On that question about your sex life, did he just ask if you were currently having sex with anybody? If that was it alot of doctors ask that. Im not exactly sure why but it has to do with your health. The rest of the stuff, I think he was just being friendly. Some doctors are that way so you'll come back to them. On the be nice to him thing, how did he ask it? He might of just been joking. He probably is attracted to you though. He might be asking questions you can take two ways to see if you are attracted to him. On the he called you thing. Alot of doctors do that after you visit. They have done that to me and I dont think my doctor is gay. Hope I helped
2006-07-06 19:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gee-Zus with this flirting married doctor already, it's worse than a bad soap opera! Just like everything else in life, you have two choices which basically boil down to fish or cut bait:
1. Get down and let the guy bone you finally.
2. Tell him to pound sand cuz you're not that kind of girl.
Anything else is being a tease cuz you dig the attention. Which he is already figuring out, hence the "I'm not taking any new patients" line.
2006-07-06 19:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to frighten you, because one can see something scary in everything, and maybe I'm just paranoid, and I don't want to make you paranoid! ^_^ Honestly though, if you're getting a bad vibe from what's happening, find another doctor and change your phone number. It sounds to me like he's one of those creepy stalker types, and like some of the others have said, he's not being professional at all. I'd be very careful, and make sure that if you keep going, someone always knows when you're going, just in case. If it continues, I'd find out where doctors get their license from and file a complaint.
2006-07-06 19:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by WinterRhya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should really drive u crazy as long as you are not interested in that doc.
You just simply change the doc and get out of this mess.
Or else u can decide to complaint against him.
2006-07-06 19:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will have a very good chance of losing his license if he pursues a relationship with you while he is your doctor. IMMEDIATELY end your 'doctoral' relationship with him, it's not good for either of you. If you want a romantic relationship, go for it, but it sounds like he's trolling the waters for anything he can catch.
2006-07-06 19:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You doctor is not only unethical but creepy. You need to find another doctor and report his behavior. Unless you are cool with being you doctor's play thing.
2006-07-06 19:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is creeping you out, bothering you or upsetting you, I suggest that you find a new docotr. Do not put yourself in a situation where you are alone with him. If he actively pursues you after you leave him, get a restraining order.....
2006-07-06 19:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Leah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm its pretty obvious there isn't it he's flirting or hitting on you or worse tring to use his position as your pyshician to make you do sexual favors or something. sounds real creepy to me and i'm i guy myself! this is worse and should be reported to police if the age difference is big. deffinatelly see another doctor and don't look back- simple
2006-07-06 19:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious what you have stated; he likes you, and by sounds of things you like him. Well its upto you the next step
2006-07-06 21:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Stay-funny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's so overfamiliar with you but if it annoys you, then go to another dr. who deals with patients on a professional level...
2006-07-06 19:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by willow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋