he is overpossessive and doesnt understand me at all.we fight always.i want a break up,bt he doesnt want to leave me. i had discussed the matter with him but it was of no use.please help!
2006-07-06 19:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
But he has no choice...if you have decided to break up with him then he has no say in the matter...
2006-07-06 19:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously u are a sort of very good human being ( how do i know ??)and may be attractive do ( thats why he is overpossesive ) ..hey i think u need time for solving the problem ....geting angry and leaving is a different thing ....first of all get clear you like this man or not ( now assuming the ans to be no ) ....its upto u to decide the level of freedom u give him ....u r the one to control realtion....u have the right to be happy and u shld be happy ( and so shld be he but not on the cost of u ...and remeber in his opnion u r too precious to be lost ).....so go ahead and have no communicationj media ...( fighting need media of communication ) ..........as u told that u have explained it to him but he is not willing .....decline to meet or talk him ( if not possible then kkeo it minimum) and be firm ( no emotional impulses ...there are lot of gud guys in the world (including me...kiddin))....to hang around ....u shld be happy and make sure u are .......best of luck
2006-07-07 08:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Explain your concerns to your guys with love, not in a complining manner.
2. At the same time, try to create a situation such that he changes, so that he feels obliged and changes his behaviour
3. Then give him some time to rectify his behaviour
4. If nothing works, move on.
Be clear to yourself; do you love him or was he there, just to fill in some space in your heart ???
People do lot of things to get a guy / gal. But do they put similar effort to maintain the relationship.
But remember that every person you meet in your life in not according to your moods and wishes. You need to compromise on few things. Thats life.........
(If you are satisfied, give me best answer)
2006-07-07 02:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What help would you like? A shoulder to cry on? For me to provide a pity party for you? You are only 20. You have your whole life ahead of you. Drop the guy, find a new one. Or be single for a while, and enjoy a carefree existence, without attachments!
2006-07-07 02:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by brass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind but adjustment in life is must. Once you both adjust to each other you can slowly slowly understand each other and life will be fine. What are the reasons that he does not want to leave you and you want to break with him? Study the financial or family status and then react. GOD bless you.
2006-07-07 02:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mohan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt ask to leave just get up and go, if he doesnt let you go themn call family memebers and have them call the cops to keep the peace. get your things and get out of there, next thing you know he will attmept to hit you. he is too controlling and will do anything to keep you, you have ot be careful with this guy. leave now while you can, thank god you dont have kids. get out of this relationship and be free like you want to be.good luck.
2006-07-07 02:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him how you feel and that you want out of the relationship because of his problems. If he doesnt listen then oh well, just tell him thats what you want and that you want to move on with your life and if he can accept it then great, if not then oh well, life must move on!
2006-07-07 02:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in this relationship because you feel sorry for him? If that's the case; then you need to find a way to get it across to him that you are not that into him! He can and will move on, but you need to get him to see what you are saying.
2006-07-07 02:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in love with someone you do not want to be with. Let him go, don't answer the phone, don't go anywhere he is. Detach yourself from him, it won't be easy, but if that's how you really feel, then it's time to move on.
2006-07-07 07:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Log kapde ki tarah boy friend bhi badal lete hain. tum bhi badal lo.
2006-07-07 02:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by geekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋