why would a man rather masterbate than have sex with a woman?

Answer 1

He more than likely is very insecure, has low self-esteem, and doesn't like himself much. He may have no self-confidence and is afraid of rejection. It could also be fear of not being able to sexually perform for a woman, depression, sexual abuse as a child, or he could just like how it feels. If he listens to you about your concerns and wants to know what to do, recommend that he go to his doctor and see if the doctor needs to refer him to a therapist. There are many reasons for his behavior. If you are a woman, don't feel bad about your "womanliness," as it has nothing to do with you unless you are not hygienically clean or you have a poor relationship in your daily life.

Answer 2

Well for a number of reasons:

1) Our hand is never disappointed if it doesn't climax
2) Our hands never ask us to cuddle afterwards
3) Our hands don't tell us to slow down, no...speed up, right there, right there, oooohhhh, almost.
4) Our hands appreciate it when we look at other women
5) Our hands understand that it's sensitive afterwards
6) Our hands don't hold out on us for 10 days then expect us to drop what we're doing when our hands want a piece.
7) Our hands don't forget our balls
8) Our hands don't get offended at the thought of three ways
9) Our hands don't look bad when they gain weight
10) Our hands know what we like
11) Our hands APPRECIATE it when it's over quickly
12) Our hands don't care that there are people in the next room


Our hands, however, do NOT have mouths. Which is about the only draw back.

Answer 3

several possibilities here:
he might be gay.
might be afraid of social diseases.
might be afraid of being in a relationship.
might be afraid of your expectations (size, performance, etc).
might know better the best pressure, speed, etc to feel best.
might like a certain fantasy that you don't help with.

certainly, there are a few million reasons why a woman is preferred but i would just like to go into one of them-lol.

Answer 4

The rest of these answers ain't giving it to you straight obviously. Sometimes you don't want the responsibility and drama of a relationship. Sometimes you're too busy for a girlfriend. I hate these people who don't admit to handling it for themselves once in a while... everbody knows you're not getting it every night, no matter how macho you act.

Answer 5

Well maybe because it's less work for him and it's what he's used to?

If that's a problem in your relationship, it's not wrong to leave him. Talk to him and if he isn't willing to share, then walk out. This most likely is NOT your fault and has nothing to do with you.

Answer 6

Sometimes rubbing one out is just easier and allows for a quick little fantasy but its not prefered over sex.

Answer 7

is he a porn addict? I did a study for my abnormal psych class that porn abusers can actually condition themselves to only be stimulated by porn. It's a weird compulsion but there are all kinds of sicko illnesses out there these days.

Answer 8

The same reason women do the same. Only you know your own body and what gets you off.

Answer 9

he doesnt have the guts to ask sex with a woman.

Answer 10

mayb he's scared of making d gal pregnant.
but so far, i know most guy wanna hv sex rather than masturbate alone

Answer 11

its most likely that the girls he is sleeping with aren't fulfilling him the way he wants,he must have fetishes or fantasy's that he thinks about when he gives it a tug or 2