appreciate me. last summer i was going out with other people while i kept her waiting for me to realize that what i was doing wasn't good for me and that i wanted someone like her to settle down with. now she is needing the time to realize the same things that i did and learn from her mistakes for herself. i dont know what to do and any help would be appreciated.
2006-07-06 19:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by ron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her some space she needs some freedom!! most women go through this phase, she just needs some time and im sure she'll come back!
2006-07-06 19:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for crying out loud. Go out and have and good time and stop waiting on her. Sounds like a case of "the grass is always greener." If she were calling you up every 10 minutes and being all clingy you'd be wanting your space again.
Go get a hobby.
2006-07-06 19:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG... this is the coward's excuse to breaking up. she has the best of both worlds--flirtations with other men as well as a steady who's there as a back up.
"broken up to give her time to appreciate me?" how can she appreciate you when you're not together? or if she's seeing other men? if she appreciated you, would she have broken up with you?
it is the oldest, most cowardly trick in the book of relationships--I'm leaving to have time alone to think about us...blah, blah, blah. You don't work on a relationship by breaking up. You work on having separate lives by breaking up.
Believe it or not this story is as old as time. It's even been studied and documented as a pattern of how people uncouple. Move on, honey.
2006-07-06 19:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by fabulousisjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were going out with other people while she sat around waiting for you? sounds like you are getting your own back!
2006-07-06 19:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Susan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for ya...wondering if she is telling ya the truth-or if she truly needs this time...39yr. lipstick lesbian, from st louis. age=knowledge
are you both younger than 25? not being wierd or anything, but, age might play a part, especially if you both are still doing the bar scene...GOOD LUCK..........LOLOL..........hey RON...i didnt look at your name earlier, and assumed it was a lesbian issue,,,so nevermind...lol...cause i dont know a thing about hetero-sexual...SORRY
2006-07-06 19:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by cheryl d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, jus wait, and show her the lovvee!!!
2006-07-07 02:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by La_Di_Da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is wait
2006-07-06 19:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋