2006-07-06 18:56:22 · 5 answers · asked by chowkinsin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
when you don't have any self confidence to do sth, let think about these words: "If people can do it, why can't I?". Trust me, it really helps.
2006-07-06 21:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We defeat ourselves with labels, we hem ourselves in, we shorten our vision, we cut off opportunities in the making. We influence how others think of us too. Someone wise said that we teach others how to treat us. Are you teaching others to expect nothing great from you...because you're always afraid? Are you shattering their vision of your potential by allowing them to think that you can't handle what may come your way?
Girl, you become the person you program yourself to be. Your attitudes shape your world, which is not to deny that problems do not occur, but view them as special opportunities for your personal growth. They can teach you to be stronger and more creative. Negatively meeting opportunities is sure to complicate any experience.
So girl, head up... shoulders squared... look at that girl in the mirror straight in the eye.... and tell her that this day is going to change her life!!
2006-07-06 21:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea im having troubles my self with this. but umm yea im getting by. all you have to do is pretty much believe in yourself.sounds pretty dorky but its true. just lkeep telling yourself that you dont care what other people think about you. just basically give yourself compliments like everyday=)usually works for me.
2006-07-06 19:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Its not abnormal to feel d way u do but u shdnt let it get d upper hand.Learn to love and appreciate urself only then can ppl appreciate u.
No matta wat situation u find urself...tell urself "I can" NOT "I can't" Its betta to try than kip wonderin' wat if I had tried. Ppl who u myt consida betta at stuff weren't born gud at it...they kept tryin' and tryin' and practicing.
I was once dat way but I'm now slowly learning to love myself and believe in myself.
U'll do fyne but kip tryin' not gettin it dsn't make u a failure....its not tryin' at all dat does. Gudluck
2006-07-06 19:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you that and magically you have it. you have to truly feel it . Starting with not caring what other ppl think. try it its fun and so liberating!
2006-07-06 19:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋