i mean..i know hwo u feel....i think im unattractive too sometimes, but looks cant e everything, right? im SURE theres someone for everyone...i mean, just because u think ur unattractive and cant get a man/woman doesnt mean the only reason u dont have one is because of the way u look...what r ur views on this?
2006-07-06 18:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 17 right now, and i believe i am plenty eligible. but, i've never had a girlfriend. it's simple why...girls my age seem to only be dating stoners and other worthless members of society. it seems to be a turn-on for them. i really hope it changes someday. because i'm not doing drugs...even if i have to die single.
2006-07-06 18:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the way someone looks on the outside shouldn't matter. Good looks doesn't last forever. If most people took the time to understand this, then the unbelievable couple that you think don't look good together actually does because they have beautiful hearts. But I've been there too where I say that "No one likes me so I must look horrible". Looking back I could see, yes that was true, I did look bad, I had a bad attitude. As I matured, I got nicer and much more responsible ... so I wonder if that makes me good looking now (^.-).
2006-07-06 18:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree. It's the opposite for me though. I mean, I am attractive, I can get guys, but although I'm attractive, it's not the main reason guys are with me at all. We all break up b/c we don't like something about our personalities/attitude/morals/whatever, but the one thing they always say is I am one of the most attractive girls they've been with. So, looks don't play too much an issue in being with someone. They just make it easier, but bleh. There is several people for everyone....gots to be openminded to get to know people.
2006-07-06 18:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that appearances have very little influence on whether or not someone can get a partner. Appearances may be what draws that person across the room to chat with another, but if that person doesn't have inner beauty, that person will lose interest fairly quickly. Besides....you can't base a relationship upon looks. If you really love the person, you'll think they're "hot" anyway. :)
2006-07-06 18:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by southerngirl627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people have very low opinion of themselves and feel depressed all the time. it's to bad as most of these people are very nice people. Our society has put us in a position that a certain look is necessary and some of these people at their opinion don't measure up. This is why they don't feel very attractive !!!
2006-07-06 18:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I don't know who you
are hanging around, but in my world, everyone believes they are beautiful!
Sometimes to a fault.
Regardless, the way to being attractive, is believing you are attractive.
I know plenty of people who were...lets say "not blessed" but their attitude and confidence takes them further than their looks ever will.
So, in short, it's not how you look; it's how you perceive yourself and carry yourself.
There truly is someone for everyone.
2006-07-06 18:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is because they have a low self esteem and feel hopeless...or because they feel sorry for themsleves and like to hear ppl tell them they are attractive to boost there self esteem....or sometimes they really are ugly sadly to say...
2006-07-06 18:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called low self esteem.
2006-07-06 18:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by heather47374 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋