We had a plan to hang out with some other friends one night and I was going to ask her on a "real" date after that because she stood me and our friends up that night and she hasn't talked to me since (like 2 weeks ago). So why did she do that and what can I do now? Do you think she realized I was into her and just wanted to start avoiding me or something?
2006-07-06 18:28:51 · 13 answers · asked by Sanjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from what you wrote...she is not interested in dateing you...going out with your friends...the best thing 4u 2 do is put her on ignore...lol...just don't be rude and abnoxious about it...things change...
2006-07-06 18:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by GyVuPhaYs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but speaking as a woman, I can see myself doing something like that years ago. If I suspect that someone I sorta knew liked me and I did not reciprocate I would avoid that person so that I do not have to deal with rejecting him directly.
If she is doing that to you, save your pride and give her the same treatment. Don't go hunting her down to try to figure out why she's avoiding you. Avoidance is disrespectful and cowardly I must say. This seems to be a very common way to reject someone these days.
2006-07-06 18:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hint and leave the girl alone. She's obviously repulsed by you and trying to be nice by just avoiding you.
2006-07-06 18:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i got the hint that a good guy friend of mine was going to ask me out i would ignore him to cause if it didnt work out we would feel all akward together and i wouldnt want that i went out with this guy once while i liked sum1 else when they guy asked me out i broke up with them and all hes done since then was nod yes and no when i ask him sumthin ( !!*oh yeah the guy that i broke out with the other guy for was not my close friend*!!)
2006-07-06 18:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by purpledogrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't know how to tell you that she dont like you and that's just her way! r she was scared to move on that's what i would go with! since she is ignoring u then u just move on you'll find someone better then will see who shes running after!******
2006-07-06 18:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shauntavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , i think she figured a real date was hopeless so she gave up. Its not possible to stand up a group thing. thats not a date, time to get your courage up and just ask her, or else forget it .
2006-07-06 18:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we love friends..but once we know we can get something out of a guy we go and take advantage ,once we know we have him where we want...you may wanna call it "wrapped" we just get up and leave..since weve gotten pampered..or maybe she just didnt like you and decided to leave it as it was and didnt wanna know nothing of you.probably she just liked you as a friend you were.
2006-07-06 18:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by sekzieannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she realized what was going to happen and decided to avoid the situation all together
2006-07-06 18:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself hun. Once you REALLY begin to do that...then you won't even post questions like this because this type of situation won't even exist in your world.
2006-07-06 18:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you started doing something.
2006-07-06 18:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by kmdiana7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋