My bf and I have only been dating for a month but I just have this feeling that he's the one. I'm only 16 and he's only 18. But I just get this feeling everytime I see him. I get all tongue tied and I can't think straight. I think it's love. I've never felt this way before and I dunno know if it's too soon to tell him or do I wait? Please give me your advice.
2006-07-06 18:18:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it feels right say it, but do understand he is not obligated to say it back. You are responsible for your own feelings. I know you're tired of hearing it, but you are very young and young love, while it feels awesome, is prone to "bullshit" from outside sources. Realize that he is the one for now....you look back on this in 10 years and smile, but wonder what you were thinking!
2006-07-06 18:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it some more time. I know that it feels like love, but it's most likely infatuation. At least wait until you've had a couple fights. By then the whole puppy love thing will start to fade and you will start to be real with each other. If you doubt this, ask yourself if you'd honestly feel comfortable farting in front of him. If not, it's not love.
2006-07-07 01:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is love, but not the love that means you're ready for a commited relationship.
Let the relationship continue. Every relationship starts off with that feeling that you can be with them forever. However, so many people make those bonds too early and it hurts a lot more to divorce than just break off.
Take your time and wait it out. Trust me.
2006-07-07 01:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Shane M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love happens in mysterious ways so you never know what it may be... and really ive had feelings for people that is love but it may not necessarily be "in love" you know what i mean...
after being with someone for a while you learn to care and need for them which leads to always wanting them around because you enjoy their company...that can be love...but you just may not be in love with him...so if i were you i would wait it out for a minute! GOOD LUCK! :)
2006-07-07 01:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by jerard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's love. or we can say a kind of infatuation.If he is really good,and reliable.,you can express your feelings to him.If he is true,no problem at all.But at the same time,do aware from him too..becos who knows,he would be flirting with you..So the decision is yours..You have to know him first and if so,then express your feelings to him..The age doesn't matters in this case. All the very best to you...Dont 4get to tell me what he has answered??
2006-07-07 01:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by pappu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One month is not long enough. You barely know him. It takes time to know someone. You are infatuated and it will wear off. Take it slow. Don't get into something that could cause you grief later.
2006-07-07 01:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait you have only been going out for a month you never know things can change
2006-07-07 01:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by walkerje1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust in him and if u r sure of him its ok
but the thing is that it takes some time to kno people very well. once there was a friend of mine who trusted this very cool guy. but after a month he dropped her. relationships last longer if there is understanding!
2006-07-07 01:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWE, FIRST LOVE, HOW WONDERFUL.
COLLEGE? YOU'LL FIND MANY THAT WILL HELP YOU FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT THEM. YOU'LL LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF & THE WORLD - A LITTLE BIT.
NO COLLEGE? STILL TO YOUNG, TOO MANY CHANGES AHEAD OF YOU.
TELL HIM? SURE. THEN WATCH HIM RUN. HE MAY FEEL THE SAME OR IF HE'S LIKE ANY GUY THAT AGE - HE'S TRYING TO LAID AS MUCH AS HE CAN.
2006-07-07 12:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by DJFresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur young, w8 till college or senioryear in hs to get serious cause thats wen ull be making the decisions that change your life.
2006-07-07 01:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋