Well she was my teacher in the last grade but as the vacations started i can't stop thinking about anything but her. She was always nice to me and all my friends used to tease me that she just loved me. She is single after she ended a bad relationship awhile back. When someone in her family passed away and she cried infront of the class i couldnt but help feel sorry for her. Sympathy, i guess turned to empathy and whenever i think about how she has suffered i cry or almost come close to tears. I know that it is both illegal and immoral to have any kind of a relationship with a teacher but what would society think if i tried to date her after i finish school and am above 18. (she is 14 years older than me) I really care for her, more than any other person i've been with.
I'm 16 btw
2006-07-06 18:16:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that i've posed this question elsewhere but the more opinions i get the better it is.
2006-07-06 18:17:08 · update #1
it's normal to have a crush on your teacher...I did too...and boy was he hot :) but realize that she thinks of you as a child. Think about all the fun you will have with girls your own age. Fanstasy gets us all but it's never gonna happen, so get busy doing something else......
2006-07-06 18:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sympathy and empathy make for a proper heart. even if, that's general to have emotions for a instructor, yet you're accurate, performing upon them is prohibited and immoral. This sounds like your old flame, bummer that's that this example. even if like all issues interior the teen years, this too shall bypass. After the age of 18 you'll proably sense truly in a unique way for this female, yet as a 16 year old, that's some time to stay interior the the following and now. that is what the teen years are about and what we father and mom groan about it. you want to get available and meet different youthful females your own age a minimal of for acquaintances to communicate with and connect with if not something else. it would want to help ease those emotions for this way older female. I even might want to be trustworthy, even at 18 there is not a lot you promises a woman that is 32 years old. you've a strong heart.... do not ever free that.
2016-10-14 05:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remeber when I was your age, we had a teacher that was the same thing. She was even younger though. She had gotten divorced. She was so pretty and was like 24. She was a new teacher. It is a good thought, but I have worked as a teacher on the other end, and I have to tell you that it is out of the question, completely. That is the stuff that loses a teaching job for her in a second.
Sorry, go after the prom queen instead.
2006-07-06 18:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see her career destroyed ,her credibilty ruined,and see her sit in jail for a very long time then date her (NOT).Even if you wait till 18 it will destroy her career and credibility as a teacher.This sounds too much like a case of puppy love.I remember being 16,17 ,& 18 your thinking with the wrong head.
2006-07-06 18:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little awkward. Everyone gets a crush on a teacher, except me so I can't really say I know where you're coming from.
2006-07-06 18:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to go out with her when you are out of school and over 18 then it shouldn't matter, what you or she does at that time is no longer a legal matter
2006-07-06 18:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably be with someone by the time you turn 18.If it's a crush it won't last most likely.
2006-07-06 18:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, give yourself more time....understand your true feeling whether u're in love or just infatuation.....being a teenager, your emotions are usually not very stable n' your crush for her would fade away anytime.....love is unconditional......u can still love her but don't act on too fast.....of course, u can wait till u're 18 to date her but be prepared if she rejects u......but that's the future.....now, give her your moral n' emotional support whenever she needs it n' focus on your studies......that would make her pleased n' happy for the time being.....good luck!!!1
2006-07-06 18:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need a little help. be with someone your own age. and it wouldnt matter if you dated her after you turned 18 she'd be old and wrinkled by then.
2006-07-06 18:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋