2006-07-06 18:05:42 · 39 answers · asked by dominicanhotshorty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its varies by the person....
2006-07-06 18:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now this is a touchy issue because all women are different. I have been told that it hurts a little, it hurts alot and all kinds of stuff...it depends on a few key factors;1) have you ever used tampons/ Do you masterbate? this could have an effect, a slight effect, but an effect nonetheless. 2) what type of man is he? is he experienced, is he inexperienced, does he love you, does he know what he's doing? If he knows what he's doing, he will go EXTREMELY slow, but get they type of jackass that wants to slam like there's no tomorrow, and you'll never talk to him again. Have confidence in his skill, and if you're loosing it together, let him know if it hurts. communicate, tell him to slow down. 3) friction- if you don't get moist enough down there, invest in lubricant, because friction HURTS!
2006-07-06 18:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by sevillian16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gentler the guy the better. There is pretty much guranteed pain for the girl, sorry. Of course, that pain goes away. For a guy the emotional pain can go on for a long time as most men don't last long the first time. So the guy doesn't last long and it hurts the girl...almost as if it was designed that way...
2006-07-06 18:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by wad_go2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 & nevertheless a virgin. you should lose your virginity with the right human being, on the right time (compared to on the faculty lavatories or some thing) & once you sense that you're prepared. Age isn't an element for sex in case you've were given those 3 issues. except for sure you're less than 15, cos you're too immature to understand & take care of sex and your body isn't mature adequate for it.
2016-11-01 08:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me It did't hurt it was difficult. If you with someone that know what thery are doing It shouldn't hurt. It also depends on the size of the mans penis.
I want to add that once you lose your viginity you lose your innocence. It is like entering a whole new world. Don't enter it until you feel that you are ready and mentally mature to handle it.With sex comes factors such as STDs and pregnacy. Be with someone that is wellling to wait until you are ready and cares for you. Be with that treats you like a princess! I DiD!
2006-07-06 18:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really scare to lose my virginity, because i thought it would hurt too, but turns out it didn't for me, because my husband did this little trick to make it not hurt.
2006-07-06 18:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or may not. If you're scared, you'll tense up which will make it hurt. If you're relaxed and comfortable with the person you're with it will not necessarily hurt. Though, there are many factors to consider that can't be answered in one paragraph.
2006-07-06 18:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by ChaCha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some it hurts, to others, no. But if I were you, I would rather lose my virginity to my spouse on our wedding night. It's the best gift you can give to your husband. Practice CHASTITY. You won't regret it.
2006-07-06 18:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt, but it depends if you have poped your cherry yet. Tampons/fingers/random objects, that get inserted into your vagina can break the skin and or loosen the vaginal canal. Making it hurt or not.
2006-07-06 18:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Owned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a little,it's got to hurt some when the hymen gets broken.
2006-07-06 18:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some women it is. If the hymen is intact, then that will be broken during sex. It will hurt a little bit but it's definately worth it.
2006-07-06 18:09:07 · answer #11 · answered by beatlesluvr80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋