What do you do when you live some place you hate and you know you cant leave?

Question

I am 20, I live with my father, and I get annoyed with him very easily. I hate it here I want to leave but I have nowhere to go. In addition, I am sick and tired of my stepmother complaining about every thing I do. I ask my father if I can shoot her and he always says no, he makes it sound as if I would never do such a thing...I don’t see how he think I wont kill some one after I got kicked out of job corps after trying to slit a guys throat. Anyhow, I have not having my own private and being stressed out all the time. Tell me some way to handle this before I go local and kill others or my self. It is so freaking stressful! I hate it! I hate that I have nowhere else to go! If I just had not screwed up in high school, I would be out of this mess. Give me some ideas. On a side note my father is a nice buy but he doesn’t get the hint that I do not give a damn wither has nice to me out not. I don’t need nice I need help getting out of here! In addition, I have at least another two more years!

i had to quit my jo to be able to take college classes. my boss dident want to work aroung my class hours

the army? i lied to get in to the ******* army and was still DQed. hell thats what orignaly pushed me over the edge.

why would i be thinkfull for my father? he sucks! if he was a proper father he would have thrown my *** out a long time ago. hes too damn nice.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Being 20 without a job and just getting kicked out of Job Corps, you are on the fast track to nowhere. Instead of threatening to kill people, which will only make you end up in the pen, why don't you try appreciatign the fact that your parents are trying to support you while you go through a transitional period. Get a job, save up some money, then rent an apartment. Maybe try some therapy so that you have someone in person to vent to. Just enjoy life, appreciate all that you've got, b/c I am pretty sure that there are people that are not as loved and cared about as you are, and they probably wish they were. Apparently your parents spoiled you rotten otherwise you would see how well you have it. And if you are really unhappy with your situation, well, you're the only one who can change it, but try the legal way!

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Answer 3

I am now 32 years old and when I was your age I found out I was pregnant and just broke up with my boyfriend (got an abortion). I had no job (can't hold one down), no way to pay back some debts I owe, couldn't go to college because my dad wouldn't sign on my behalf for student loan. I was severely depress. I was living in a household of 9 people with a 3 bedroom apartment (like underground). My mom left the country and my brother moved away. I was homeless for awhile there. I wanted out of San Francisco so badly I recall. Finally I joined the Army and that got me out of there, a job, money for college and I met my husband for whom I'm still married to. I'm not sure if you have a felony that will prevent you from joining the service but taht was my last resort and it worked out. You could also apply for financial aid for a university and live in a dorm if you choose. I know your parents have to sign financial aid paperwork if you live with them and consider a dependent. Look into some colleges and talk to the financial aid advisor to investigate. You can also get a job and move out with roommates. There are agency that is willing to help you find roommates in your area.

Answer 4

You can try moving in with some friends, or other family members like aunts or uncles. And if that doesn't work, you can always apply to college and dorm there.
Bottom line you need to concentrate on what you want to do with your life instead of concentrating on all the annoying things in your environment. Go out, do whatever it is you enjoy most, whether it be hiking, reading, or partying. Come home late if you don't enjoy their company--I'm sorry thats the best I can do. But just know that you're really young and you'll soon leave and this will all just be in the past. Ok?

Answer 5

I don't know man. There are a lot of red flags in your question. First of all I'd think about getting some help. Don't go hurting someone just because you are all stressed out. What about getting a room mate. That way your expenses might be manageable. Why do you have at least 2 more years there? Take control of your life and get out. I don't think shooting your step mom is a good idea.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

I have to live with my parents and my family is very screwed up and dysfunctional. My dad is really smart but really crazy too and can act in ways that make me lose respect for him. But he always makes up for the bad things he has done, but I know he will never go forever without being bad again. There is no way to measure if your father is worse than mine or not but that doesn't matter.

Anyways, you can think to yourself that you don't care what they think of you because you know who you are and what they think doesn't change who you really are. If they don't have a good reason to be hassling you then you are not guilty. Having a clean conscience and trying to improve myself helps me get along with my life.
If you can be on your best parent loving behavior and do what you think you are supposed to do and not cause problems for anybody then that might be good for you too. Especially don't make trouble just because you don't like your parents or hold grudges. Parents can be just as malicious or wrong as the kids because like my dad taught me, moms and dads have feelings too.

I don't know any easy ways of getting out of living with your parents. Hopefully you can just get the most out of it, realize how good you've got it even if it's not that good and your life will naturally move on to the way you want it if only you work at it.

Answer 8

Get a friggin job and move out. You're 20 so get on with your life. You should feel grateful that you have somewhere to live where you don't have any responsibilities. Grow up and learn to control yourself before you end up in prison for the rest of your life.

Answer 9

Since you are 20 I suggest you grow up, get off your butt and get your own place. You sound very hostile, talking about "killing" your stepmother, etc. You need some help, see a good counselor... soon.

Answer 10

join the army go fight for your country you think your a tough guy wanting to kill your step mom and slit some guys throat put your anger to good use

Answer 11

It is possible to live in a prison with convicts, without bothering about them, if you know how to cool down your mind with yoga and meditation. so learn it, you have enough time with no job at the moment. You may be able to influence your step mom too, if you cool down your mind. They may be blind, but you are not blind!