But I'm so,so scared. I'm not ashamed of my body, but No-one has ever seen it but me.i'm comfortable with him but as far as having sex goes (i'm not) I love my boyfriend and I feel he is worthy of being my first. And I'm so ready to do it.. I just cant seem to get over my shyness..What should I do?
2006-07-06 18:02:19 · 20 answers · asked by BoSs_LaDii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't NEED to lose your virginity. You just want to. You shouldn't if you aren't married, but if you are going to, plan it safe. Use birth control and a condom. Both of them together are still not 100%.
if you are shy about your body, don't be. Everyone has their share of flaws. It's totally normal to feel this way. Just take a deep breath and thank the lord you are not the fattest woman on earth!
2006-07-06 18:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Magali♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking, you are not ready. besides, the first time or two sucks. Even after that. It takes time. And besides, when guys are young they just do it quick and that is it. And you will be asking yourself, what was that, it is worth waiting for. And if you are both mature, especially him you might have a chance of having some enjoyment. After many years, let me tell you - it takes time with anyone new.1st times are bad experiences - they are bad for all girls.
2006-07-06 18:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by anabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sighs. I dont want to sound like a damaged record yet i become 16 when I lost my virginity, to a virgin also and that i favor that i hadnt. i actually cared about that guy yet particular existence replacing judgements replace issues on your existence. What take position once oyu have sex? Are you truly waiting to cope with the consquences? communicate it over with him first, discover out why he stopped you the finest time, is he waiting? there is not something incorrect with being a virgin, your body could have urges yet believe me, from time to time its best to leave them on my own...... in case you truly want ot have sex, get on birth control for a minimal of a month, use condoms. Dont probability getting pregnant, believe me its problematic unmarried mom of two coming at ya!
2016-10-14 05:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with having sex, I would strongly suggest that you wait. Even if your boyfriend is sweet, you think he's worthy, and you love him, that doesn't mean you should have sex with him. If you're not comfortable, I don't think you're truly ready. In your heart you know what you want, listen to it. Hope I helped you :]
2006-07-06 18:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by babyrooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should should go for it. As i see it u really trust this guy and ur ready, u may never get another chance like this ever again because the older u get the harder it is to find someone that u could really trust. You do wat u think its right by all means but if u think thats losing ur virginity to ur boyfriend is a good idea then go for it.
2006-07-06 18:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by goldarm8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it doesn't matter your age, from the age of consent in your state to the oldest person on earth, remember, It is possible to contract any of the sexually transmitted diseases from only one incidence of intercourse with an infected partner. 2. It isn't smart to carry a condom and not be brave enough to use it. 3. Practicing safe sex means a lot more than carrying a condom in your purse. 4. Your first responsibility is to protect yourself, and any children you might later have. 5. Be smart and discuss birth control while your clothes are still on.
2006-07-06 18:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are at least old enough to go to a college. It is not worth getting messed up right now, he will just leave you when things go awry or you end up with a child.
2006-07-06 18:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about how you feel if he doesn't already know. Everyone is a little shy and nervous their first time, no matter what they say. Just tell him to take it slow and at your pace, and if he's a good guy everything will be fine.
2006-07-06 18:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by eclint929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need to take it slow, you will know when your ready. Don't do anything until your completely comfortable or you might regret it. & if he dosent like your decision he can get over it or go on his merry little way.
2006-07-06 18:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Chad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the consequences. Ask yourself if youre mature enough to held it. If you're ready enough. In my opinion, if in the back of your mind you're saying that youre scared you aren't ready.
2006-07-06 18:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋